This is Part 2 of Chrystal Bougon’s interview with two instructors, Rachael and Francoise, from the Welcomed Consensus in a live interview on Better Sex Radio, titled “You’ve Have Heard of the G-spot, Now You Will Learn About the Thunkspot”. Listen in as they discuss some things about the female anatomy and nerves of the clitoris you may not know, what a female orgasm feels like, how to experience the optimum amount of sensation during any sensual experience, and more.
Crystal: Hi there, welcome back to Better Sex Radio. This is Crystal Bougon, I am the Chief Toy Officer and Pleasure Coach for BlissConnection.com. Be sure to go to check our blog today because we do have one of the DVD’s from the Welcomed Consensus on our blog and our blog is BetterSexRadio.net. Of course, they do sell these wonderful DVD’s on their website, welcomed.com.
The DVD’s they have are all about female orgasm, female masturbation, the clitoris, how to have a one minute orgasm, a 3 minute orgasm, I think a 1 hour orgasm. Anyway, wish we had all day to talk to them, but we are going to talk some more with Rachael and Francoise from the Welcomed Consensus.
Welcome back to the show ladies.
Francoise & Rachael: Thank you Crystal.
Crystal: I talk about this a lot at our pleasure parties and I notice you guys have a little bit of this on your website about the full extent of the clitoris, that it extends inside the body. I always describe it to our party guests as these like clitoral legs, almost like little clitoral nerve endings that we have that run all the way from our clitoris deep inside our body down to, I have read, above our knees and to our nipples. These little nerve endings go throughout our body and all those things can add pleasure to your clitoral orgasm. So when you guys are talking about the full extent of the clitoris and how it extends inside the body is that what you are talking about?
Francoise: Exactly, and the fun part about it is that with Deliberate Orgasm and using the manual stimulation of the clitoris, the glans have the 8,000 pressure sensitive nerve endings. So through stimulating the clitoris and having both people having their attention on the person receiving the pleasure then it is so fun for a woman to feel where that sensation can expand in her body. Most people for example don’t even know that the clitoris engorges and that it engorges not only in outside, but inside of the body.
Crystal: Oh yeah, we have to have lots and lots of blood flow to the pelvic region not just to the clitoris. We need both.
Francoise: The beauty of it that both people can relax, they know that with that many pressure sensitive nerve endings, an orgasm is going to get created and they just focus their attention of what is happening in the moment, the present moment, and feel, and women often discover new sensation, they discover slowly how intricate their clitoris is and how easy it actually is to have an orgasm once they can have this kind of relaxation.
One of the main things about orgasm is that, to this day there is still a lot of focus on the kind of orgasm that Master’s and Johnson described in 1966 in which the orgasm is oriented toward the release of the sexual tension. In Deliberate Orgasm, that is not the goal. The goal is basically the pleasure you are experiencing in the moment, and doing so you can experience quite an array of sensual pleasure and sensation that otherwise you might not even have paid attention to.
Crystal: I have sometimes struggled trying to explain to women, especially to women who don’t have orgasms very easily, how you can have these sort of deeper, more full body orgasms. They just don’t get it. I try to explain it like tremors, or like an earthquake or something along those lines that people can relate to that happen more internally and then from there move out and radiate out to the other parts of your body. That’s the best way I can describe it, but maybe in the DVD’s you explain it in more detail and explain to people exactly how they can have these kind of orgasms. I am assuming you are showing the exact technique in the DVD.
Francoise: We are and in particular in the series A 3 Minute Orgasm, one of the volumes is called Orgasm at the First Touch, and we show not only what the kind of mind set and viewpoints you can adopt to have more pleasure. Basically that’s how it starts, starting with being willing to experience orgasm at the very first touch. We have a demonstration of instructors of the Welcomed Consensus doing a demonstration of the 3 minute orgasm. You see the technique up close. You can see the woman’s genitals. The partner is fully dressed, but you can see her genitals and you can see how her clitoris is being stimulated and stroked, in a fairly clinical setting so people can see the technique. It is not meant to erotic, it is meant to be instructional and educational so anybody can use that in adding onto their sex life.
Crystal: Right, so does this involve, this technique, I know you said it’s only manual, no oral. Does it involve pulling the hood back and really exposing the clitoris?
Francoise: That’s right, and it’s really quite an easy technique, you can pull the hood back and put the finger right on the clitoris. You get a little, some lubricant, and start stroking. And then we show how basically you can start stroking and building the orgasm, we call it “peaking”, building some peaks. Bringing the sensation up and down and up and down and building it some more. We show it, like I said, basically in the DVD so that people can do it themselves as soon at they are done watching the demonstration. They can talk about it and experiment.
Crystal: Interesting, and then you mentioned when we were talking before the interview yesterday something that you call the Thunkspot, and I have never ever heard that terminology before so I am really curious about that and in your DVDs you get more into this thunkspots, technique?
Francoise: Right, actually we have a DVD that’s called Manual Penetration while DOing, Thunkspots. Like we were saying most people don’t realize that actually their clitoris engorges and it extends so far into the body in most of the pelvic area and the clitoris has 8,000 pressure sensitive nerve endings. The vagina on the other hand does not have any pressure sensitive nerve endings. But, when the clitoris, internally and externally, is engorged then inside of the woman’s body inside of her vagina there is beyond what commercially people know as the G-spot, there are actually many spots that are so sensational inside of a woman’s vagina when she is engorged. And we show exactly how to reach these spots, how to stroke them and it’s another one of those things that is so fun for a woman for both partners to really find out about her body and find out all of these spots are available and that their pleasure can be created so easily. So whenever they have, they can use this in addition the sex they already have. It brings a certain kind of awareness and fun knowing about her body that can be carried on to the rest of their sex life.
Crystal: Yeah, for sure. And then also it is something she can learn to do alone or also to maybe to manually stimulate herself during intercourse.
Rachael: And then I want to say too that in addition to what Francoise said, that when you stimulate the glans and the whole clitoris gets engorged and the whole inside of the clitoral legs get engorged, then all the other sex acts such as intercourse become much more sensational.
Rachael: And it becomes so much fun, intercourse becomes a whole new experience to have when you’re properly, the woman is properly engorged. For, both the man and the woman.
Francoise: Once a man knows actually, how to DO a woman, how to stimulate her clitoris, and he can learn to do that as a sensual activity on it’s own. Then, if they choose to stimulate her clitoris while they are having intercourse it is something he will know how to do. He can do that, it would be something he could easily, he will know things about her body and her orgasm that he can bring into the other sexual activities they have together.
Francoise: It definitely is something that creates good communication, more connection and intimacy with the partners and enhances the rest of their sex life.
Crystal: We only have about 2 minutes left but since we are in the Bay Area I know we have a lot of Bay Area listers and I know you guys are way up in northern California I noticed on your website you have a Common Sensuality Course coming up on July 18th and 19th in San Francisco. Could you guys explain what the course is going to be about – nudity? what you can expect? – those kinds of things so the people who are really new to this could possibly feel comfortable to attend your course.
Rachael: Oh sure. Well we have been teaching this course since 1992 and it is a 2-day lecture and discussion only course. So, in answer to your question, every body has their clothes on. And students are welcome to ask questions throughout the entire course and some of the topics we cover are: how to lengthen sensual experiences. We discuss the nature of orgasm How to DO a woman and how to DO a man. Communication practices a tool where both the man and the woman can win when they are having a sensual experience together. We cover topics like seduction, how to overcome resistance to pleasure and creating gratifying, fun relationships.
Crystal: How to overcome resistance, people resist pleasure?
Rachael: They do.
Crystal: I guess I don’t, that doesn’t make any, does not ring true with me, I don’t understand that one. But I know what you mean some people are not so comfortable with that kind of intimacy.
Rachael: Right this course is good for a wide range of people.
Francoise: You can come by yourself, you can come with your partner, no partners are required. Anyone is welcome. You can actually register online if you like at welcomed.com or you can call us. We have a toll free number 1-877-469-8636 FREE for more information.
Francoise: You did mention, we have a course that is a demonstration of a woman experiencing a one hour orgasm that is done by the instructors of the Welcomed Consensus, but that is a different course. This one is going to be a lecture and discussion, Common Sensuality, and it is a prerequisite to all of our other courses.
Crystal: So thank you ladies, thank you so much, make sure you check out their website, welcomed.com. Thanks so much for listening to Better Sex Radio.