It was past nine when we got out of bed. I lit the fire in the wood stove but it went out three times. Yvonne, the smarter of the two of us by far got it to stay lit by leaving the stove door slightly ajar. We sat by the wood stove to pull each other’s withholds. Withholds are one of the foundations of pleasurable living, like Deliberate Orgasm.
The spacious den was getting warmer, in time for us to have a DO date on the big bed. We went high together in this date. The date had some similar qualities to the best date that we had yesterday. The glans of Yvonne’s clit was protruding proudly, with the accumulating engorgement.
Every deliberate orgasm is a different experience. That’s one wonderful thing about them. This time instead of stroking mainly in the crease on the left side of her glans where the spots of hopes and dreams lie awaiting, I stroked on the body of the glans of her clitoris. The surface of her clit was soft and shimmering like a bubble, and the movements of my finger made a lot of sensation. She was soaring to high heights. The surface of her clit was wet and slippery, yet still grabbed my finger and vibrated with sensation. After a few peaks I gently brought her down with some heavier pressure and intention.
When I bring a woman down after a high date there is a phenomenon that I have noticed. When I take my finger off the colors of her pussy look intense, and her clit looks very inviting, and I want to stroke it more. Generally I don’t stroke it more because this would be mashing, or the opposite of good seduction practice, and the result might be that the woman will not want to have a date for some time after that. She will have had too much attention.
But Yvonne and I know each other very well. She will get off for as long as I DO her, whether it be 2 minutes or three hours. Her clit looked bright and engorged and protruding. I took her up again. This was the most sensational part of the date, and the highest. We soared to great heights.
We stayed on the bed for a long time and talked. Yvonne said she enjoys talking to me after these high dates. She asked me if I was afraid again. I was taken aback by the question, but I had talked about my fear of women when we were out in Smith River in our Validation Course. I said no, actually I had just been thinking about what its like having a woman who wants me to win. And I remembered the long years of my life when I didn’t have a woman who wanted me to win, and during those years I wanted such a woman and thought about what it would be like to have one. And I told Yvonne that it seemed like a natural transition to having such a woman in my life, and that I didn’t do anything in order to have one.
She told me what she had observed that I did do, and why she decided to be that woman. She said what you did when you came up to the ranch for your CI2I Level 3 course in May was you stated your goal. Your goal was to get women off better than they’ve ever gotten off before. Then you put your ego aside and you listened to what RJ told you was the way to do that. Then you really tried it on and asked yourself how your life would be different having the goal of getting women off better than ever before. I wanted to expand my orgasm, so I signed on. I said I’m going to take this as far as I can. I decided to tell you the truth about everything about me, and about my orgasm. And you listened to me. That’s why I picked you.
Since then, Yvonne and I have had many conversations about her orgasm, her pussy, the sensations in different points on her clit, and the changes in intensity she feels when we make fun choices in our friendship; like telling each other the truth and acknowledging specific moments. By relating over her pussy, our friendship is a kaleidoscope of changing experience around a solid core…a friendship on her terms. It’s so much fun and we’re having the time of our lives.
-Richard