Terry Goffinet talks with the Welcomed Consensus about their one hour orgasm demonstration course. Why do they do it? What is it, really? What can you learn from it? And how can you see a demonstration of a woman experiencing a one hour orgasm yourself? Sensuality instructors, Sheri and Wendy, answer these questions and more.
Female Orgasm Podcast
Episode 3 Transcript
One Hour Orgasm: An Educational Demonstration
Terry: Welcome to the Female Orgasm Podcast, where we explore the potential of female orgasm, more pleasure, and a better sex life for both men and women. This is Terry Goffinet and I am your host. Our guests today are Sheri Testerman and Wendy Testerman, and we are going to talk about the demonstration of a one hour orgasm. Thank you for joining us today, it’s a pleasure to have both of you on the Female Orgasm Podcast.
Sheri: Thank you Terry
Wendy: Thank you
Terry: Sheri and Wendy are instructors from the Welcomed Consensus, researchers and educators in communication, sensuality and relationships, with a focus on female orgasm. Our show today will be about a course offered by the Welcomed Consensus, called the Observation of Intense Coming, which features a demonstration of a woman in orgasm for one hour. Listen in and you’ll find out why they do it, what it really is, what you can learn from it, and how you can see a demonstration of a woman in orgasm for one hour.
Terry: I was first curious to find out, what inspired you to offer a course called Observation of Intense Coming?
Sheri: Well we’ve been researching female orgasm for almost 25 years now, and what that means, what it means to me is I had my first DO date, I was first introduced to the Deliberate Orgasm technique almost 25 years ago. So I had my first DO date, and, you know I had a fun, a very fun sex life beforehand, but when I first got DOne, and I experienced this particular kind of orgasm in my body, you know the deliberateness, having the kind of attention that RJ put on me, and the orgasm he created in my body, it really it blew my mind. And I know Wendy felt the same way when she had her first DO date, and we had DOing become an integral part of our daily life. And I was experiencing sensations in my body that I never knew was possible. And also through DOing, our level of communication and intimacy went way up.
So we had this new discovery of, you know of female orgasm, and we began researching it and became more and more curious about what is possible here. And then at one point it just spilled over to our desire to want to teach, to share with other people the experiences we were having, and share the beauty and the potential of female orgasm.
Terry: What is the purpose of the OIC – why offer a demonstration of a woman in orgasm for an hour?
Wendy: Well, I would say that like Sheri had said, that it became this beautiful part of our life, and we wanted other women and men to have this experience. And so, we decided to teach this course to demonstrate what was possible. What one woman could do another woman could do. And what one man could produce in a woman’s body, another man could produce in a woman’s body. And it was a really fun course to witness. It’s a very, it’s a unique, it was a unique style of orgasm when I first saw it. Now it’s my everyday way of orgasming. But we just wanted it to be out there so other people could have it as well.
Terry: And what exactly does an Observation of Intense Coming course look like? If a new student were to walk in the door, what, kind of set the stage a little bit, this is a pretty intimate, kind of far out there, you know, subject, when you mention it to people they’re like “what?” So, give us an idea of kind of how it looks when you first walk in.
Wendy: Well it’s, when you think about it before knowing, you come up with these preconceived ideas, but it’s really a clinical setting, with a modified gynecological table, and that’s where the woman lays down and has, where the demonstration takes place. And so there’s a chair, and a table, and there’s usually a couple other chairs with people sitting around the table where the woman is having the orgasm, and then seats in the rest of the room for the audience. And the only person who doesn’t have clothes on is the woman, or at least part of her, you know and, it’s. We took away all the, we call it romantic appointments, you know like candlelight and dim lights and things like that. We put a little, maybe flowers there, but the whole point of it is for the experience of witnessing this one hour continuous orgasm rather than the setting. The setting is second, it’s not even secondary. It’s just the experience of witnessing the orgasm and even feeling it in your body as you witness it.
Sheri: Yes, and there’s a lecture beforehand and then you have the demo, and then a lecture afterward. And throughout all three parts we encourage students to ask questions. They can actually ask questions during the demo, to even the DOer or the DOee. It’s very fun.
Terry: And geez, talk about blowing your mind, she would be able to answer a question while she’s having an orgasm, is that usual, that happens?
Sheri: That’s right, she can answer a question. She’s in a relaxed state, and you know she might not answer it on a very high peak. She might wait till she’s brought down some, and then, and because you can ask of her what is she feeling in her body, you know what kind of sensation, where is she feeling it, how does it feel, so she’s more than happy to describe that to the students, you know to give them reality on what they’re experiencing.
Terry: Now you mentioned a peak, how does, how do you make an orgasm last for an hour? You call it continuous, so you know it’s not multiple, it’s not a bunch of small ones, it’s one continuous orgasm. How do you do that?
Sheri: Well that’s a very good question, which we cover extensively because that’s where training comes in, to learn how to take control of a woman’s nervous system, and create a continuous orgasm in her body, whether it be for a one minute, three minutes, or an hour, and peaking is the building and waning of tumescence in her body.
Terry: So you mentioned training. By attending a demonstration, is that part of the training to produce a one hour orgasm – like does a student see a one hour orgasm and then they go out and that’s what they start doing in their lives?
Wendy: Well by witnessing it, it is part of the training, because it starts, if someone’s never had a DO date before, or hasn’t DOne a woman before, then this really gives someone an idea of what, how it goes, and what it feels like. And having that one hour is just something that people can do, but ordinarily it’s like a 3 minute or a 5 minute or a 10 minute orgasm. People don’t get up out of their seats and go home and do an hour orgasm, I would say, right?
Wendy, But yes, you can be just as gratified with a 3 minute orgasm as one hour in DOing.
Sheri: Right. We like to do the one hour, and have it be an hour, because it really expands someone’s mind, you know to witness an hour, to feel it in their body. You know hopefully it will blow their mind so they will be willing to take on new viewpoints about what orgasm is and can be.
Terry: You’ve both said the words feel – you feel the orgasm. I expected it to be, okay you’re watching to see what he’s doing and how she’s reacting, you keep saying “feel,” you “feel the orgasm”.
Wendy: You can, it’s definitely a possibility if you’re relaxed and your mind is open, it’s energy, orgasm is energy and you can sit there in your chair and feel the woman’s orgasm in your body.
Terry: How can someone attend a demonstration – do you have a limited audience, or is it available to anybody? How does that go?
Wendy: Well anybody who is interested in learning more about Deliberate Orgasm can attend, and there is a prerequisite of the Common Sensuality Course. And we have a Couples Retreat or Sensuality Retreat that has the Common Sensuality Course and the OIC, which is the Observation of Intense Coming demonstration, in our 3-day retreat. And the Common Sensuality lays out the foundation of viewpoints that we offer too – it’s always fun to start out with these, have these viewpoints as a foundation for Deliberate Orgasm.
Sheri: Yeah, and living a more pleasurable life, and having more fun, having more fun with your partner, and just, you know it really touches all aspects of a person’s life.
Wendy: That’s right.
Terry: So do you have a course schedule, is there anything upcoming, or how can somebody find out more information about when these courses are offered?
Wendy: We have a calendar on our web site, and we have a phone number if you want to call to find out. But right now on our schedule we have a retreat, a Sensuality Retreat up in Northern California in March, and then we have a Common Sensuality Course in April in San Francisco, with an OIC.
Sheri: Yes, and anytime students can call and request a course, you know request a time slot and say “this is when I can travel, does this work for you?”, and we like to accommodate people. We love what we do, we love teaching, so we teach upon request.
Terry: Great, that is great to know. Wendy mentioned the phone number, I thought your phone number was so fun when I finally realized what it said. It’s 877 and then it spells How-to-DO, and I thought boy you guys must have swooped in there and got that because that is perfect for you.
Well thank you both so much for being here today, both of you. It’s been fun. It’s been informative. I enjoyed this time and learned some things.
Sheri: Thank you
Wendy: Thank you
Terry: This is Terry Goffinet and you’ve been listening to the Female Orgasm Podcast. Tune in again soon for fresh new topics that will bring more pleasure and orgasm into your life. In the meantime, you can visit the Clit Board – a place for men and women to talk about female orgasm at www.clitboard.com.