Posted by Michelle on June 01, 1998 at 09:52:02:
In Reply to: Teens and the sexually inexperienced. posted by Brad on June 01, 1998 at 08:42:10:
Hi Brad:
Regarding your advice for moderately sexually expecienced people:
>This is advice for someone with at least moderate sexual experience. I hope that they can learn from the board but also do not have unrealistic expectations due to what they read here. I believe that the board has many exciting and relevant postings but to believe any woman or couple will experience everything posted here is unrealistic.
What do you mean by everything - do you mean what the WC educates in the area of sensuality?
> Twenty years ago, I believed every story I read in pornographic magazines was do-able. I have done many of them (with varying levels of success and failure) Some I have not done and do not really see why I ever wanted to do them in the first place.
What the WC teaches is not pornographic, I have read those stories too and this is very different. This is about having a pleasurable life and good communication, and using orgasm as the vehicle to get there. The act of doing enhances the relationship between the man and woman. It creates a bond that is indescribable.
> I guess the point is that when neither partner has the experience to equate these postings from their life, then their relevence and usefullness will much lower than someone more experienced.
That could be true in the regular paradigm, but what the WC teaches is different than you have ever experienced. I took the Common Sense course and I have had two partners who did also. The confidence they gained was amazing. I was with the first guy for over a year and we always fought about our sex life - so much that he moved out. He took the Common Sense course and CHANGED. It actually allowed us to break up and still be great (though platonic) friends today. I took the course and loved it, it changed my life. I had been embarrassed about my parts and being a woman. I suffered a lot in life and realized that was my own doing. Having a orgasm on a regular basis reminds me that I don't have to suffer anymore. I can have fun in life. And I do. I really have a fabulous life - its not about what I own, but that I can have a great time doing what I am doing - and having a love relationship that is absolutely wonderful.
I also want to add that someone may have had a lot of SEX, but with certain attitudes or hang ups with sex, or opinions about men or women, they might not be having a lot of PLEASURE and FUN and LOVE with their partner. This totally changes in the course. You can really have the relationship you always wanted if you participate ALL OUT.
When I started dating my current guy (now my fiance) I insisted he take the course. He was a great lover before, but after - WOW! What he learned from the course was to be so caringly attentive to my orgasm. He learned all about my clit and how to touch me there for me to get the most pleasure. He now gets such a great turn on by turning me on. He learned that by making my orgasm better, it would make his orgasm (and life) better.
So to say that someone should not expect what is posted here (by the WC) may be true. You might just have to take the course to understand what people are talking about here.
Regards,
Michelle
PS I am 31 and have been having sex for 9 years. Not many partners, but I have an absolutely exquisite sex life. I have it all caring, fun, and sexy lover, who knows how to use his members... =)
Sex before the Common Sense course - FLAT and DULL. Sex after the Common Sense course - FULL OF LIFE and TECHNICOLOR