Posted by Brad on June 01, 1998 at 08:42:10:
Many of the postings seem to be from people who are so sexually inexperienced that they have little or no knowledge what to expect.I believe you have to have some point of reference to use the information on the board effectively. This is advice for someone with at least moderate sexual experience.
I hope that they can learn from the board but also do not have unrealistic expectations due to what they read here.
I believe that the board has many exciting and relevant postings but to believe any woman or couple will experience everything posted here is unrealistic.
Twenty years ago, I believed every story I read in pornographic magazines was do-able. I have done many of them (with varying levels of success and failure) Some I have not done and do not really see why I ever wanted to do them in the first place.
I guess the point is that when neither partner has the experience to equate these postings from their life, then their relevence and usefullness will much lower than someone more experienced.
Another suggestion would be to suggest the person posting give their aproximate age and years they have been having sex.
I am 35+ and have been having sex wih partners since the seventies (man am I getting decrepit.)