Posted by Andy on May 31, 1998 at 14:42:39:
Hi there.
Here is my dilema:
Everything I have read in regards to what women prefer when it comes to sex and foreplay seems to suggest that the longer the better. With my girlfriend though this is the total opposite, in that she seems to prefer if I cum quicker and the foreplay is shorter.
Now, I think this is down to the fact that she has never had an orgasm, definitly not with any partner, though she has come close via masturbation, and this leads to frustration on her part because she thinks she can't give me what I want, and she can't get what she wants.
I want to help her overcome this more than anything - I just want to help her enjoy sex more and the foreplay, and hopefully be able to make her orgasm.
Is there anything anyone can suggest that I try? I've always ask her if there's anything I can do differently, or anything she'd like to try, but she is unsure of it herself. I'm willing to try anything if someone has some ideas - maybe some of you have been in this situation before?
We've ordered the video and are eagerly awaiting it, but if there are any other suggestions then I really would appreciate them.
Thank you for any help you're able to give, and thanks WC for this board.