Posted by Tom on May 27, 1998 at 14:44:12:
I posted questions about the DO Video on 5/18. Ordered by phone, and received the video in just a couple days. B. and I watched it, and have begun to try doing. It wasn't embarrassing to watch the video, but a little startling. The rest of the WC seemed detached and cold, contrasted with Sheri's state of consciousness and undress. Also, it looks like--video or no--it takes time and communication to get good at this.
What kind of lubricant were you using? We used Astroglide, but it wasn't as slippery as yours seemed. It occurred to us that you were using an oil-based lube. We'd heard there are health concerns--risk of infection because the oil holds bacteria in place--that argue for water-based lube. Also we use a diaphragm for birth control, and wonder about keeping it safe.