Posted by Joe on May 21, 1998 at 06:18:21:
In Reply to: Re: GOOD! posted by The Welcomed Consensus on May 20, 1998 at 09:22:43:
> Chris,
> I attempted to give this present to Belle the other day but she couldn't get it up to appreciate it.
> We will start a continuing dialogue on this subject if you want.
> First of all you both are doing great.
> The next thing is KEEPING her relaxed, if she starts getting "squirmy" or getting pushy, let her know YOU are doing her. If she won’t relax, stop "doing" her until she does (relax), then start again.
> The next thing, is "peak" her more, use less pressure, and quit her BEFORE she quits you, leave her wanting more.
> The two of you are re-defining orgasm for yourselves, we (the WC) are not going to do that for you, it sounds like you are having a lot of fun, keep it up.
> Keep talking
I have been reading the board for several months
and I am left with a recurring question in my mind:
Where does climax fit in to the WC's definition of orgasm?
I understand the concept of prolonged pleasure,
and the heights to which it can take a woman (I consider
figuring that out one of the great sexual accomplishments
of my life.) I am just trying to figure out if there
is some sort of finishing cresendo in your definition of
orgasm, or if that is just a carry over from
male-based thinking about orgasm.