Posted by Welcomed Consensus on March 20, 1997 at 10:01:49:
In Reply to: Unable to achieve orgasm posted by Desperately Seeking Orgasm on March 15, 1997 at 07:01:11:
>I am a woman in my 30's and have never had an orgasm during sex. I have had
>several when I am sleeping, and know that I am really missing out on something.
>I would love some advise on how I may finally be able to have one at first by
>myself, then with a lover. Any advise?
Welcomed Consensus- Create a safe place to be alone, use a little vaseline to lubricate your genitals, explore around without touching your clit at first, notice where and how you like to be touched, do that for a few minutes, then pull the hood of your clitoris back, with the tip of your index finger rub your clit for pleasure, not to achieve something, just for the pure pleasre of it, do that for as long as the sensation builds then take a little break, and then do it again.
If you do this, let us
know what your experience was, then we'll tell you what to do next, other wise
we'll take this off in about a week-Neil