Posted by The Welcomed Consensus on January 28, 1998 at 18:07:33:
In Reply to: Inability to get arroused since having child posted by Carey on January 04, 1998 at 12:05:54:
We recommend that you learn to "do" her. It's an offer that's hard to refuse. Often it is a good way to open the door again. If you do buy the video, we recommend that you start with short periods of time 10-15 minutes, and that you schedule the time in advance so it gives both of you a chance to deal with whatever has to be dealt with. Expect this period of low desire to last at least two years. We recommend that the guy starts a "project" that will last about that long. And last but not least, don't bitch about it, it won't get it over any faster, and you risk losing her for life.