Posted by JDS on February 17, 1997 at 06:11:40:

In Reply to: Re: Why does she cry? posted by JDS on February 17, 1997 at 06:08:11:

> > Sorry for my english. I'm from Brazil.
> > First, nice to find a site like this. I was looking for something in the web, and I hope this is a serious site.
> > My girlfriend have a big problem: every time she is near to have a orgasm, she start to cry, and then she had no more plasure in sex.
> > I don't understand very well, because she didn't like to speak about. But as I understood, she start to feel the orgasm, and the sexual parts start to be very sensitive. She stop to lubrificate, and stop to feel (I can feel it).
> > When it happends, she just can't accept any touch. It is an intensive repulse. She become very sad...
> > She also have a very small sexual interest, and only a few times she start a relation.
> > It starts, as she tell me, since her first penetration. It wasn't with me, I just meet her a few months ago. She doesn't like the experience (I think it is not good for any women in the first time), and after this she dislike things that she use to like, and never experimented an orgasm.
> > She is very unhappy for this, and me too. I can't make sex with her only desiring my own plasure. My bigest plasure is make the other part happy.
> > Please, someone tell me what I have to do. What is the problem? Is this usual (I never had this problem, one time a girl cry, but with plasure).
> > If someone can help me, send me a mail (marvin_lau@hotmail.com)
> > She is a diabetic person, having some diferent characteristcs, like very dilated vessels around "mamilous" (I don't know the correct word), and it appear to be a parallel cause, as it make it very sensitive. But I could be wrong.

From JDS:

I would suggest that your girlfriend discuss this issue with her doctor. Diabetics often suffer from a condition that causes oversensitivity and eventually loss of feeling in parts of the body.