Posted by Learn the RIGHT WAY on October 29, 1997 at 18:09:10:
In Reply to: Re: female orgasm posted by Julie on October 27, 1997 at 19:46:04:
> Dear Consensus:
> I am fifteen years old, all the older girls are talking
> about orgasms in high school. I have not had sex yet, please
> explain how a woman know when she has an orgasm.
> Also, exactly how does a woman masterbates.
> I know how a guy masterbates, but still do not understand how
> a woman masterbates and reaches her climax
O.K., Julie
I'm going to try to help you avoid years of frustration experienced by FAR too many women.
MASTERBATION is the key here. You've first got to learn what YOU like, what makes YOU feel good
before you even THINK about being with another person. You've got PLENTY of time for sex, so WAIT.
You're still VERY young. There are many girls your age that have made the mistake of having sex TOO SOON
and have found it to be an unpleasant experience (pain,pregnancy, disease, etc.) mostly because they didn't take time to learn about themselves.
But you're old enough to find out about yourself.
The part of the vagina that brings pleasure to a woman is called the CLITORIS. It's a small 'nub' located
@the top of the vaginal opening. THIS is the place that you what to concentrate on. What you're going to want to do
is first rub the vaginal lips to first arouse yourself. Gradually, make your way to your clitoris (you should find this nub to be
firm when touching it when your aroused). Rub this area in a circular motion gently (vary the speed and pressure of this rubbing depending
on how you feel). Try using an oil or lubricant (non-petroleum based) of some kind (Lotion is good, for starters). Find a place
where you can have some privacy and just explore yourself. RELAX and ALLOW YOURSELF TO FEEL GOOD. Take your time.
You're at that age now where you are becoming more aware of your body.
The more you know, the better off you'll be.
Search YAHOO for 'Female Orgasm' and/or 'Female Masterbation' for more in-depth information. Let me know what happens.
Keep a book of female anatomy handy as a reference.