Posted by J and B W on December 06, 1996 at 08:59:07:
Got the video yesterday after I had sent the inquiry to you. Thanks for the
quick service.
J and I watched it once yesterday. We tried what we had learned out last
night. Amazing.
We already practiced pleasuring each other manually, and J responded well to
my touch, which was to move a well lubricated finger over the clitoral
shaft, both sides and circular and side to side. Only for brief seconds
would I stimulate within the opening of her clitoral hood. My finger seemed
too much there, although the tip of my tongue worked OK there.
I had apprehensions from watching the film, that the situation seemed too
much like male dominance/female submission and had taken a cautious view of
"orgasm on command or demand" J's reaction was far from feeling dominated.
She participated freely, which was different for her. She usually takes the
attitude that whatever I produce is what she gets and that's all she wants.
Last night she kept me well informed of her level of arousal and let me know
if I was missing the point (pardon the pun).
We started from an unaroused condition, and positioning myself exactly as
was shown in the video I applied a little lubricant, pressed my right thumb
lightly on her perineum and concentrated on the 1:00 O'clock position of the
tip of her clitoral hood. When after three or four minutes I moved under the
hood and came back to the upper left quadrant, she reported great feeling.
Within a few minutes she said it was like an orgasm but she didn't want to
have it end. We continued for about 12 to 15 minutes with J rising and
falling slightly but continuing in what she described as a state of orgasm
and unlike anything she had ever experienced before. We would have gone on
longer, but my back was killing me because I had not started in a relaxed
position and have lower back problems.
J wanted to reach complete resolution so we continued with our traditional
mutual manipulation. She went over with forceful contractions lasting over
one minute, which is normal for her, to complete resolution in the Johnson
and Masters pattern, after her ministrations to me and my excitement at her
pleasure caused me to ejaculate on her leg.
My understanding from following the student journals and the video is that
by not reaching the point where a girl goes into complete resolution, but by
providing pelvic/pudendal relief through manual pressure at the end of a
session of continuous orgasmic experience, she maintains a state of arousal
and joy through out the day, and is ready to begin orgasmic experience with
little additional stimulation. J reported over a minute after I quit finger
stimulation that she was still having orgasm contractions and enjoyment. She
did not want to remain in that unsatisfied state, however, which led to our
additional activities. My guess is that she would reach a point of
satisfaction without needing to feel complete resolution. Johnson and
Masters initially felt that continued lack of total resolution might be
harmful. I'd like more input on this concern.
I hope this is helpful to you. It helped me a lot to "debrief."
If you have any questions, we are very open to sharing our experience with you.
Many years ago I obtained a copy of "ESO, Extended Sexual Orgasm." I was
never able to share it with my partner at the time or later my second wife.
I had loaned the book out before I met J, who is now my wife, partner in
life and vocation, and friend, and I don't know where the book is. I don't
think it matters, you explain better.
Keep up the good work,
J and B W
"For God sent His Son into the world that we might have life, and have it
more abundantly." John 3.