Posted by The Welcomed Consensus on November 19, 1996 at 21:46:05:

In Reply to: Re: no ejaculation! posted by Bill on November 18, 1996 at 08:11:35:

> > i seriously need help! I'm 24,had sex 2 times in my life.
> > my problem is that i can't reach climax. no matter how
> > hard i concentrate. could it be from too much masturbation
> > as a kid? i dont feel anything when i'm inside a girl.yeah
> > i have a small penis, but really!

> Dear senseless,

> Two episodes is not sufficient to build a case on,
> except that you could build a habit with this
> partner. After 25 years of always trying to keep
> from having an orgasm before my partners were
> fully satisfied, I suddenly experienced a total
> lack of sensation towards orgasm with a partner.
> Two experiences with her had same results.
> It was the best thing that ever happened to me.
> I found that with subsequent partners I could
> think about my senseless experience and it helped
> me reduce the onset of orgasm until I was ready
> to finish. I had a long term partner later that I
> had to really concentrate and think of situations
> where I came too quick to trigger my orgasm.
> She loved it because she was multi-orgasmic
> (12 to 15 in an hour, truly). My feeling is that
> there are many varitations in penile length and
> vaginal positioning. If the sensitive spot on
> you is not in contact with a pressure point in
> the vagina, nothing happens. Often the onset of
> ogasm in a woman causes changes in pressure
> points, that can suddenly trigger my orgasm.

The Welcomed Consensus:

You can spend a lifetime trying to figure out the
"formula" for controlling when your cock gets hard
and when and if you cum, but the simple truth is,
if you aren't positive beyond a shodow of a doubt
you can get a woman off better than she gets
herself off, it will always be an uphill struggle.
You can get training to learn to do this, we are
one of those places.

Would you like to be known as a guy who can
"control" his own pleasure, or would you like
to be known as the guy who produced the best
orgasm she ever had???????????? RJ