My husband gave this to me as a gift for our wedding anniversary. As I was in the shower after work, he lit candles in the living room and set out a glass of wine and some chocolates for me to enjoy. Then as I began to sip my wine he sat down beside me, picked up the remote and pressed Play.
I was surprised at first. We have watched some sex videos before but I was not expecting to see the title, "Female Masturbation". This was definitely going to be something different. Elle was so pretty to watch; she touched her thighs and looked in the mirror, my husband kept looking over at me to see if I liked it, I was captivated. I liked seeing the way that she took her time touching her body. I could see she was getting more turned on, and then I was looking forward to seeing more. She touched everything else first and I felt the anticipation build. Then she reached over to the bedside table and got some lube and began touching her clitoris.
She stroked her clit directly with her fingertip. I liked seeing the close up shot because I could see exactly what she was doing. I have to admit that this kind of direct fingertip stroking was new to me. I noticed how her hood was pulled back and at times I saw her clit beneath her finger. It was bright pink. I have never seen a woman's genitals in this fine detail.
After the DVD was over, I felt turned on and sexy. My husband asked me what I thought, first I kissed him and then I told him that I wanted to masturbate for him. He set up the pillows like Elle had on the bed and I lay down, he sat at the foot of the bed and leaned down so that his face was close up. It was so much fun to spend this time on myself, caressing, looking at and enjoying my body. He watched intently and I loved that he was looking at me like this. I pulled back my hood and stroked my clitoris directly the way that I had seen Elle do in the video. I used different pressures and imitated some of the strokes that I had seen. I really liked taking what I had gotten from watching the video and adding it into my own repertoire. It was the best anniversary present ever.
After I finished, my husband started touching my thighs and told me how much he liked looking at me, and watching me touch myself. We talked about the video and his hands traveled up. We had a lot of fun; but that part was just for him and me. Thank you to the makers and producers of this video for a new way for my husband and I to relate sexually. This video really has added a fresh spark to our relationship.
Several years ago when I first purchased one of the Welcomed tapes I remember now how confronted and even angry I was. I thought these people are full of ____ they don't know what their doing, this information was not going to get me what I wanted some of the information was in direct conflict with what I thought women wanted. I told my friends about how messed up I thought these people and their video was.
I was not in a serious relationship at the time, what I was after was sex and a lot of it. Some of the women I was having sex with liked it a lot others just went away.
After I met Carrie everything changed, suddenly I wanted to give this woman more pleasure than any man had ever given her. I wanted to spend my life with her. She found the tape and we watched it together over my protestations. She told me that it was what she wanted to learn. My life has been changed.
My wife and I watched this video together and we liked it. She is 50 years old and has never masturbated and we purchased it so she might get some pointers. It is fairly informative and helpful so I think that it was definitely worth the time and money spent.
Watching Elle in the delight of her own orgasm was a wonderful experience and opportunity to learn about giving pleasure to a woman. From the very start she strokes her body while looking in the mirror noticing the caresses she likes the best on her body. When she lays back, spreads her legs, her lips get engorged and she begins to flush. There is no doubt she is turning on. Then she begins stroking her clitoris with her lubricated fingertip, it is priceless to see her contract, engorge and change color. It gives me a better idea of the changes a woman's genitals go through while in orgasm.
In this video, Elle doesn't go or want to go over the edge, she shows being in orgasm and enjoying all the strokes without an end goal of going over the edge. (Which is different from volume 2 every woman's orgasm is unique where Susan definitively goes over the edge and it is so fun)
In this video though, it is great to watch her feeling each pleasurable stroke knowing she is not going for an end result. As Elle continues, varying her strokes I can actually feel the peaks of her orgasm in my body and notice more engorgement and colors changes again. She takes a break and when she resumes the peaks of her orgasm are higher than before, when she strokes her nipple in unison with her clit. There are so many nuances and changes in Elle's orgasm that I have watched it again to see them.
This video definitively showed me that orgasm can be enjoyed one caress at a time and gave me a different perspective on the kind of pleasure women like. This one too I have used on my wife for more variety, after watching Every woman's orgasm is unique, I gave her her best orgasm; after watching this one she told me it was her most delightful orgasm and thanked me for being so creative. I guess it is true great lovers are made, not born.
"I've been lucky enough to review all of the volumes in an ever growing library from this small group of sexuality educators that are collectively known as the Welcomed Consensus, and each one they bring out shows something new and different. This particular volume deals with a woman's orgasm and the pleasure that umm pleasuring yourself can obtain.
Elle is a student of the Welcomed consensus and, I have to say, is an extremely pretty young lady. The DVD begins as we watch Elle prepare for a self-pleasuring session. She begins by exploring every nook and cranny of her skin, something that I think is important and was glad to see brought out in the DVD. Slowly she undresses in front of a large oval mirror, which adds to the seductive images that the whole scenario creates. Once undressed, Elle lies back, and we are treated to a short but sweet anatomy lesson. It's worth mentioning here it was nice to see an unshaven vulva for once in a video.
As Elle begins to masturbate, she uses a technique that the Welcomed Consensus describes as the deliberate orgasm, a technique that I have tried myself and works very well. The idea is to keep yourself on the edge, to feel the peaks and flows of pleasure but never quite fall over the precipice of orgasm itself until you really feel you can't wait any longer. Elle demonstrates this technique in an erotic way that makes you want to pleasure your own body as you watch; in fact, that's exactly what I ended up doing, but that can be our little secret.
This video consists of both close-up shots of Elle's genitals as she nears orgasm and wonderful shots of her face and body. You can really feel her pleasure build with this combination.
What's it all add up to?
This DVD really lives up to its title, and the emphasis is definitely placed on the pleasure of a woman's orgasm, namely, Elle's. The imagery is simple but effective. The mood is seductive and erotic, and you will likely learn something from watching this as an added bonus. Not many of us get the pleasure of watching someone masturbate to orgasm, and it's nice to be able to lie back and enjoy the ride simply because we can.
If you would like to enjoy a soft and seductive look at how a woman can obtain great pleasure from orgasm, this DVD is sure to deliver."
Elle invites us in the privacy of her chambers and unveils the mysteries of her intimate self. She opens, relaxes and surrenders to her pleasure in such a sincere and direct way. She is obviously not "performing" and there is no doubt that she is truly comfortable with the idea of enjoying herself. Her mastery of the art of self-pleasuring takes us on a magical voyage. She rides the waves of her slowly evolving orgasm moving through peaks and valleys drawing sparkles on the landscape of our senses.
When I first watched this video, I felt drawn by the slow rhythm of Elle's finger stroking ever so delicately her clitoris. I became haunted by the refrain of her subtle moan and the alluring vision of her contracting anus.
As a man interested in learning how to pleasure women, I find this video to be invaluable. It has helped reawaken my own sensuality while showing me how to precisely touch a woman for her own pleasure.
Finally I understand what I have been looking for in my long and frustrating journey with Porn. What I always longed for but never found was to be a witness to a woman's "real orgasm". I am grateful for Elle and the Welcomed Consensus for offering us this absolutely frank and unabashed taste of reality.
This video gives you a peak inside Elle's bedroom as she pleasures herself for her own enjoyment. Whenever I watch this video I am always left with a reminder of what female masturbation is about. Elle has a beautiful and sexy body and begins her ride by enjoying what her body looks like in various pleasurable positions. By touching her clit with strokes varying in speed, length and pressure she takes herself on several wonderful peaks. One of my favorite parts of this video is watching Elle take breaks to enjoy her body and her orgasm. Towards the end of the video Elle builds a connection with her clitoris and her nipple by rubbing each of them at the same time. By this point her genitals and her nipples are both a dark deep shade of red. Elle uses all of her senses to enjoy her orgasm: the touch of her skin and genitals, the sound of her moan, the sight of her body and the smell of her own scent.
This video is part of an amazing Female Masturbation series put together by the Welcome Consensus and is tons of fun to watch on your own or with a partner.
I was made aware at the beginning that this masturbation video is unique in that it portrays a student of the Welcomed Consensus, Elle. This was intriguing to me, as I have become accustomed/familiar to the style of orgasm this group of people has to offer.
The first scene is of Elle stroking her body in front of the mirror. The narrated voice-over describes what Elle is doing and to some extent what she is experiencing touching her body and enjoying every stroke. This is made very obvious to the viewer, as I could feel my own skin at times wanting to be touched the way she touched herself.
I should mention that as the viewer, I felt like a voyeur, looking into Elle's bedroom and watching her reflection in the mirror. This lent an erotic quality to the film which I liked, particularly when Elle seductively undresses in preparation for masturbating. When she lies down and gets positioned on the bed, the camera gives the first close-up of Elle's genitals, pubic hair au natural, along with an anatomy overview. They emphasize certain facts about the clitoris that all men and woman should know if they want to be better sexers.
The orgasm Elle gives herself is a very real, practical demonstration based on the technique of Deliberate Orgasm, which is what the Welcomed Consensus teaches. No special tricks or toys involved, only a dab of lubricant and primarily her right index finger. I could feel the highs and the lows of the sensual journey she took herself on, what I've heard referred to in their other videos as "peaking." There are many close-ups of her genitals, some for extended lengths of time, allowing the viewer to see not only exactly how she is stroking herself, but also the vivid colors and contractions in her vulva. I picked up a few tips myself watching this video; the way she strokes her nipple in addition to her clitoris at one point was my personal favorite.
It was refreshing to see a woman masturbate without giving herself that really hard climax at the end. Instead, she completes the experience with one long finger stroke inside herself, which looks delicious. She then takes the time to see how she looks in the mirror, now that she's had a good orgasm, caressing her body once more.
Elle captures the viewer with her beautiful body and her evident love of orgasm. One of the closing graphics is a quote from Elle herself, which I thought was a nice touch. If you want to see how a woman likes to masturbate for the pure pleasure of it, this is the video for you.
I have always wondered how other women masturbate.
How refreshing to see a woman quietly enjoying herself.
One of the things that I like about this DVD is how Elle looks at her body in the mirror and uses her fingers to masturbate. Nothing showy or artificial. It feels like pleasure for pleasure's sake, which I definitely would like to have more of in my life.
She is a beautiful woman enjoying herself, showing the beauty of a woman's orgasm. I recommend this DVD to other women who want reality on the simple fun of enjoying your own body.
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