Deliberate Orgasm Volume I - Viewer Comments

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"Deliberate Orgasm - Expanding Female Orgasm Volume I was the video that completely changed my sex life"
-D.P.

"One question from me would have been "why is the '1 o'clock' position on the clitoris the most sensitive"?"
-H.C.

"after watching the tape, we started talking about sex openly, and very first time we tried, she had a very strong, amazing orgasm."
-L.

"Six months after ordering your video and learning all this my wife is PLEASED."
-Doug.

"I began to orgasm almost immediately and kept it up for the length of the video."
-Vanessa.

"The next day she said "Every time I think about it, I get really horny....I've been craving it all day, I'm walking around with a clitoris hard on!""
-D.S.

"Great video and a lot simpler than I thought it would be."
-Bill.

"The video does all that you say. Thanks and wish I had this kind of information many years ago."
-E.A.

"Thanks for changing my life!...What she did to me after that produced the most powerful orgasm I've ever had in my life."
-Nancy.

"I am 50 years old, and am living proof that there is always something new to learn.... Your tapes are indeed a valuable contribution to humanity!"
-Don. S.

"Since using the techniques shown in the video, the strength and enjoyment of her orgasms have increased dramatically."
-Jon.

"I think the WC is doing a HUGE community service. We need as many trained men out there as you have space in your courses."
-Robyn.

"I bought both videos and believe me I found out I didn't have a clue. My wife is having orgasms now that she never thought possible."
-Jon.

"It is the first video I have seen where I can actually see the contractions that a female has in her vagina during orgasm."
-J.M.

"She now can experience multiple orgasms in a very short period of time."
-J.B.

"I tried the 'doing' session with my girlfriend tonight and it was extraordinary! She had so many orgasms she made me stop."
-Jason.

"We got the video three days ago and enjoyed it very much."
-R.L.

"It illustrates how important subtlety and finesse are in pleasuring a woman."
-R.K.

"I learned how to better find the "right spot" ...My wife learned to tell me what to do rather than try to "wiggle" to the right spot."
-J.V.

"he asked "Would you like me to do that to you?" and, of course, you know my response. We had such a great time!"
-C.S.

"I was very much impressed with it. I initially thought that what you folks were doing was just a joke, but after viewing the tape I now know that the courses you offer are real"
-D.P.

"this is a no bullshit classroom exhibit of a woman being put into one helluva extended orgasm."
-M.B.

"When after three or four minutes I moved under the hood and came back to the upper left quadrant, she reported great feeling. Within a few minutes she said it was like an orgasm but she didn't want to have it end."
-B.W.

"Overall, your tape is a good idea as many are clueless and need some gentle assistance."
-H.K.

"I think that there is a misunderstanding throughout the world as to how to please a woman and that this instructional video has a needed place to fill in our society."
-J.G.

"this will revolutionize people's sex lives!"
-M.F.

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9/29/05


Deliberate Orgasm - Expanding Female Orgasm Volume I was the video that completely changed my sex life and I am thrilled to see it now on DVD. I had never heard or even thought of a man touching a woman's genitals with such attentive precision as is shown in this video, that he could create that kind of pleasurable sensation in her body continuously for as long as they both want it. I had never heard or believed that women could be in orgasm right from the beginning to the end until I saw it in this video. My partner had seen it and really wanted me to watch it and do it to her.

Pretty soon, I was giving her better orgasm consistently than I had ever given any woman before. I watched it again recently and there is still more wealth of information about how to do a woman. The instructors describe in details what they are doing and feeling throughout the demonstration, answering very good questions from the audience.

Any man who wants to get his woman off better, any woman who wants her man to know how to touch her, there is not a better place to start than this video.

  D.P.

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1/28/06


This video is a no-nonsense show of how to massage a woman to orgasm. It starts by showing the anatomy of a real women's sex organs, then continues to show how a man can manually stimulate a woman to orgasm. The 40 minute show is mostly a man massaging a woman in full view of the camera and in front of several audience members. There are plenty of detailed views of the vulva, labia and clitoris, and how the man moves his fingers across the clitoris. The audience members sometimes ask the man and the woman (as well as two women who sit nearby) questions about technique and other matters.

One question from me would have been "why is the '1 o'clock' position on the clitoris the most sensitive"?
The video is best for men and women who do not know what the female sex organs look like, who are unwilling or unable to communicate to their partners about what feels good during sex, who do not know where to put their hands and index finger during stimulation, and who do not know what manual stimulation feels like.

The theme of the video is like a medical documentary: a matter-of-fact description of anatomy and techniques. The woman in orgasm was not screaming and tearing the sheets; she was quietly moaning in pleasure for several minutes. The video is certainly not like a pornographic film or a steamy sex drama.
A final note: the video was produced in 1996 on VHS, but today's DVD version has poor sound quality sometimes. For this reason, I gave the DVD 4 stars instead of 5.

  H.C.

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9/19/98


This is a pure magic, I just can't find another word. WC and all Clit Board posters, thank you so much!!! My marriage almost came to an end after (I am not kidding) 16 years. My wife never had an orgasm (and it really bothered her and me) until I discovered this site, ordered your tape, and printed out some of the messages for her. I could not believe it, after watching the tape, we started talking about sex openly, and very first time we tried, she had a very strong, amazing orgasm. It works every time now, we want each other every day, our marriage is in completely new stage. I just can't express all my appreciation to everyone on this board. We talk about things we would never talked before.

  L.

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10/31/98


Six months after ordering your video and learning all this my wife is PLEASED. Two days ago she told me "If what I've experienced the last half dozen times is orgasm, I've never had one before in my life." We are both very glad we to have learned these techniques.

  Doug.

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10/13/98


Some things of particular interest that I noticed were:

The amazing level of trust between RJ and Sheri. After he finishes doing her, they kiss. I can see in her eyes that she was completely fulfilled by his touch.

The physical changes in the size, colour and shape of her pussy and clit. It was amazing to see her clit drop down closer to the opening of her vagina after some time of continuous orgasm. Someone in the audience mentions this. I'm not sure what RJ says, but I wonder if it has relevance to the angle at which a penis might enter her vagina. Does MOTHER NATURE help us out a bit here?

The way RJ praised her for the beautiful sight of her pussy!

The slow, teasing way he applied the lubrication from her perineum up. (I now do this to myself, thanks RJ!)

The most incredible thing I noticed was how amazingly calm and 'in control' she remained the whole time. She was so relaxed. There seemed to be a couple of times that she might start writhing a bit, but he "took her down" to prevent it. He seemed to know exactly how to touch her to get the response they both wanted. I could tell that these two have communicated at great lengths with each other...they seemed to 'know' each other's inner people rather well.

When I touched myself the way he touched her...it felt like the pressure was too direct. I don't usually touch my clit from underneath the hood. I usually rub the sides of it and rarely touch the top or middle. I noticed there was tons and tons of a white-ish milky fluid running down my leg and into my anus. I began to orgasm almost immediately and kept it up for the length of the video. Everytime I'd feel a wave, my whole body would start to move and invite more pleasure. I experienced abdominal ridging and my pussy contracted really well... I could tell because I'd insert a couple of fingers deep inside my vagina to feel what was happening in there. (I can see why a woman orgasming during intercourse is especially pleasurable for the man, as my pussy really squeezed tight and enveloped my fingers as I came.)

RJ mentions that if she were to move, she'd be searching for pleasure. I wondered about this. I analyzed exactly what it was that I was feeling when I'd start to move (my legs wider apart, my head from side to side, my breasts pushed out more, my back arched, my feet flexed forward, my neck extended, my mouth opened wide). It seemed to happen involuntarily. I liked that it happened. Although I understand what RJ meant when he said Sheri didn't have to move because she'd be searching for more pleasure, I don't believe that I was searching for pleasure but rather going towards it... inviting it...(all my gestures were opening, and widening, thus letting it in.) If I were having difficulty achieving orgasm, I could see why you would move to get it...I've been like that before (years ago when I was having sex with someone I didn't really like and was trying to have fun).

Sheri's moaning was beautiful... very natural and in trine with the softness of her personality. (She was a perfect candidate to be 'done' on video, as she was very pleasant to look at although all the girls are pretty, and her pussy was exquisite!) It would have been nice to see each one of them being done, just to see how uniquely each woman would display her pleasure.

I noticed (although not surprisingly) that I became extremely verbal during orgasm.

Lots of heavy breathing, a bit of squealing, moaning and a deep guttural sound during the most intense pleasure (just before I come down.) Sometimes I got frightened. I wondered if I'd be able to 'take' the pleasure. My eyes kind of fluttered and I felt very disassociated with my surroundings but only for about 2 seconds.

By the time my husband got home, I was fast asleep, but I knew I had the most incredible smile upon my face. I had a very restful, deep sleep.

My masturbation techniques have now taken on this same type of stimulation and I'm feeling more pleasure but I'm still preferring to orgasm during intercourse with my husband.

  Vanessa.

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6/1/02


Most women believe that direct stimulation of the naked tip of the clit is too sensitive. My girlfriend said the same thing. When she masturbates, she goes in a circular motion. She also prefers that I touch her clit in the same manner. She does not like the naked tip of the clit to be touched, as it is "too much." She prefers the hood to be rubbed over the clit, providing a "pushing" pressure onto the clit.

My friend Brent lent me a video he ordered from the web site: welcomed.com. The guy in the video certainly seems to know what he is doing. He showed how you must directly touch the naked tip of the clit at its one o'clock position (as looking AT the clit) with the tip of the index finger. In the video he demonstrated on a woman. He rubbed her for about 10 minutes. All the time she was orgasmic, but she never 'came.' I returned the video and thought nothing of it.

One night I told my girlfriend about what I learned in the video and I showed her the web site. I told her that the guy said that "Any clitoris can be touched, when touched right." I said to her "I want to try an experiment." She said "OK! But I'm a little skeptical as in the past direct stimulation has been too powerful."

Just as in the video, I had her lie on her back. I sat to her left side and placed my left arm under her left leg with my hand under her ass with my thumb pressing on her perineum (between her vagina and her anus.) The video said this makes her feel secure and anchors the clitoris. My girlfriend agreed with that. The video said to use a lot of lubrication because you must avoid micro scratches. I used Astroglide, nothing else works nearly as well. Just as in the video, I slid the tip of my right index finger up onto her clitoris. I smeared the lubrication onto her clit and then began to rub the one o'clock position of the naked bulb of the clit. The rubbing is to be done with the tip of the index finger pointing straight at the clit. The strokes are about one half inch and at a frequency of about 1 or 2 strokes a second. She immediately responded favorably. She said "I LIKE THIS experiment." I tried the 11 o'clock position and asked her if that was any different. She said that the one o'clock position was better. I then tried the six o'clock position, and again she said that the one o'clock position was better. So I went back to that. I don't know why the one o'clock position is better, and the guy in the video didn't explain it. I continued. Before long, she said "This feels SO good that I don't WANT to cum!" I instructed her to continue to relax totally. She said she was right on the edge. She was in continuous total ecstasy. This continued for about 30 minutes. Then she said that the pleasure was so intense that she couldn't take it any more and she wanted to cum. I told her to cum, and she did.

We talked about it later and she said "The orgasm was different than any before. The sensation was different. It was like my clitoris was being pulled! It was like I had a penis and it was getting pulled. It is totally unlike the usual rubbing where there is pressure ONTO the clitoris. This was different."

The next day she said "Every time I think about it, I get really horny. It's like when you first learn how to masturbate, you want to keep doing it.
I've been craving it all day, I'm walking around with a clitoris hard on!"

David Shade, author of "David Shade's Manual"

  D.S.

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11/19/98


Great video and a lot simpler than I thought it would be. I had this idea it would be like the inverted counter-clockwise swirl, but it was a basic stroke. I will get to try it out this weekend. I don't know how to train my girl to come on command. But I will try the technique. I may even tell some of my college pals if it works like it should. Thanx

  Bill.

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11/18/98


I received the DO video today. Eight days from ordering on line.

The video does all that you say. Thanks and wish I had this kind of information many years ago.

I am looking forward to your next video and assume you will post order and information.

  E.A.

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1/20/98


Thanks for changing my life! It all began a few weeks ago when my girlfriend showed me this web page. When my husband Dave is out of town on business I often stay with my girlfriend Jody and her husband Mel. A few weeks ago while there on an overnight visit Mel was also out of town so Jody and I got into some girl-talk. After a few glasses of wine she said she wanted to show me a web site that her friend Erica has shown her. This was the place. She showed me the photos of Celine and the other girl having their confirmations. I couldn't believe how hot I got looking and those photos and reading about your procedures. Jody then told me about the video you offer and said her friend Erica had a copy. When I wondered aloud as to whether it really worked, Jody said, "You better believe it does!" When I then said, "You mean Mel has done this to you?" Jody said, "No, he doesn't know anything about this yet, Erica did me. It was the best orgasm I've ever had. They call it "doing" and I'm telling you it really works." I couldn't believe what I was hearing as Jody then said, "Are these photos making you as wet as they did me? I was so envious when I saw these the first time. Erica taught me how to "do" a woman like this. I can "do" you if you want."

I couldn't reply, but also couldn't resist when she led me to the bedroom and helped me get naked. What she did to me after that produced the most powerful orgasm I've ever had in my life. After she had "peaked" me a couple times she then leaned forward, pulled my clitoris hood back and very gently and tenderly kissed the tip of my clitoris. I went into orbit!

Anyway, I felt I had to share this with you and thank you sincerely! Now all I need to do is get my husband a copy of your D.O. video.

  Nancy.

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1/12/99


I watched the FM and DO tapes recently and want to tell you of my experience.

When my friend masturbates, she rubs her clit as fast as she can, and I presume she uses quite a bit of pressure, also, since it would probably be difficult to apply a light pressure at "high speed." Her orgasms last about as long as mine (several seconds.)

Well, the other day I gave her a massage, and afterward she asked if I'd be interested in masturbating in front of each other.

Thinking of the WC tapes, I had a better idea! As she was very relaxed from the 90-minute massage, I told her I would get her started. I used the DO technique as well as I remembered it, touching her very gently and oh, so slowly. After a while she was straining hard to bring on her orgasm, but I didn't speed up. Then she would relax, or rest, for a moment and strain again. We weren't talking about her experience (we had not discussed this beforehand), but I sensed that she would become frustrated soon, so I gave in to her desire to come. However, rather than go faster, I used my tongue, but still slowly and without too much pressure.

Needless to say, the woman was quite surprised and very pleased at the quality and length of her orgasm!

I am 50 years old, and am living proof that there is always something new to learn. I am learning that, in sex, as in many things, you sometimes get more when you allow it to happen, rather than try like hell to make it happen. I think my friend is learning this too.
Your tapes are indeed a valuable contribution to humanity!

Peace and Blessings to you all.

  Don. S.

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10/16/98


My wife has never been able to have an orgasm during intercourse. I have always been "clit conscious" and over the years of our married life, have always been able to bring her to orgasm via her clit. I thought I was giving her the best I could since she could not orgasm during intercourse.

One day while searching the web I ran across the Clit Board. I read it for awhile and finally decided that, hey, these people may have something here. So, I ordered the D.O. Video. I watched it several times and began applying what was taught on the video. Guess what folks. I was wrong all the years that I thought I was giving my wife the best I could give her. It didn't come close. Since using the techniques shown in the video, the strength and enjoyment of her orgasms have increased dramatically. I couldn't believe how much stronger they were.

You can't imagine how great I feel when I have given her so much pleasure. I thank the WC for making this video available.

By the way, my wife and I are in our 60's so you young folks shouldn't give up on getting the most out of your sexual lives.

  Jon.

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9/22/98


Well, I watched the video alone, mostly because I live alone. :) As a matter of fact, I just turned the TV off.

I'm not sure exactly what to say...I enjoyed the video, but essentially, I only learned one thing, but it is monumental...I need to learn to find that pleasure in not going over.

I guess, from the context of the video, I have been lucky enough to have been "trained" through the same basic techniques. It seems to me, the WC has quite a few parallels to D/s. ::giggling:: "cumming on demand"

Hearing Sheri's moans elevated me to fondly remembered places, then, somehow, RJ managed to bring me back down with her. I am in that incredibly relaxed, comfortably wet state, that I truly love.

I have been in a 2 year, long distance relationship. After all the time I have been reading this board, I decided to prove to myself that S. was indeed as wonderful as I had thought. He is. But knowing what I do, and having the WC validate our opinions, I have to say that this video should go out to every man and woman that have ever thought, "Well, that was nice."

::Giggling:: I think the WC is doing a HUGE community service. We need as many trained men out there as you have space in your courses.

The end of the video mentions other videos. Are they really available? I would love to see them, as well.

Toddling off to play...

  Robyn.

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6/23/99


...I thought I was giving my wife everything she wanted and was completely satisfied with our sex life. I bought both videos and believe me I found out I didn't have a clue. My wife is having orgasms now that she never thought possible. Thanks to WC. Your wife (and you) would definitely benefit from these videos.

  Jon.

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8/10/98


I recently received a copy of your video, D.O. Volume I and really enjoyed it. It is the first video I have seen where I can actually see the contractions that a female has in her vagina during orgasm.

Question is are you moving from one orgasm to the next in the video or are you constantly in a state of orgasmic euphoria.

A man feels an intensely pleasurable sensation at the onset of orgasm followed by a series of rhythmic contractions of the PC muscle . The feeling subsides (after 15 or more contractions in me) and it takes a while before the orgasmic sensation returns.

Do you experience this same intense pleasurable sensation at orgasm and with each subsequent orgasm?

  J.M.

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8/9/98


I have purchased your video and posted my results on your site. My girlfriend couldn't have more than one orgasm a day. She now can experience multiple orgasms in a very short period of time. Needless to say the video was a worth while investment.

  J.B.

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6/25/98


I will have to say I am one of those individuals who purchased the 'doing' video from WC. I tried the 'doing' session with my girlfriend tonight and it was extraordinary! She had so many orgasms she made me stop. Then, because I needed relief, I had intercourse with her. She once again had 4-6 orgasms, so many in fact, that she felt nauseous and didn't let me finish. Now, we're talking about a girl who normally has 1 orgasm a day, maybe 2 if she's lucky!

Just thought I might post this for those of you who are thinking about buying the video. This is NOT a sales promo!

  Jason.

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10/3/97


We got the video three days ago and enjoyed it very much. It is always interesting to see new techniques on how to please your lover.

Thanks. You are doing a great job!

  R.L.

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9/22/97


It arrived on Friday afternoon. I found it to be pretty informative. It illustrates how important subtlety and finesse are in pleasuring a woman. I liked that. One thing I found odd though was this "Cum on Demand" thing R.J. mentioned during some of the Q&A. It sounds so...authoritarian.

Thanks, guys

  R.K.

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8/17/97


We recently acquired your first video, Deliberate Orgasm, and have put it to good use. I learned how to better find the "right spot"
and keep tenderness in control by using appropriate amounts of lubricant. My wife learned to tell me what to do rather than try to "wiggle" to the right spot.

  J.V.

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7/28/97


Your video arrived on Saturday, and ( the timing and opportunity were perfect!) yesterday my Most Wonderful Significant Other and I viewed it together. When it ended, he asked "Would you like me to do that to you?" and, of course, you know my response. We had such a great time!

We each commented that we would like to have your jobs! But more on the serious side, what I'm hoping your instruction will do for me is to free up my brain to 1) be able to RELAX and enjoy what my body is feeling, and 2) to allow myself to receive pleasure without having to be doing something else at the same time for my partner other than to allow him to get the pleasure of what he's doing and knowing that he's pleasing me. For many years, I have been depriving myself of orgasms because I felt embarrassed that I took so-o-o-o-o long to reach them that I would rather not bother, just say that I'm feeling fine, or pretend. What a jerk!

I'm so thankful that the man in my life now is so caring and sexy! Whew! This just only makes something wonderful even wonderful-er!!! Thank you so much.

  C.S.

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4/11/97


I talked to you several day ago on the phone about ordering the tape from you guys, 'Deliberate Orgasm'. Well, after anxiously awaiting for its arrival, it finally came today. I was very much impressed with it. I initially thought that what you folks were doing was just a joke, but after viewing the tape I now know that the courses you offer are real and really have a definite substance. It was obvious that Sheri, I think is her name, was definitely enjoying excruciating pleasure from RJ's manipulations of her clitoris. To deny that she was in orgasm would be foolish. I believe it.

I would love to be kept informed of any new videotapes that you will have for sale in the future.

  D.P.

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3/1/97


To: "Society for Human Sexuality"

Videotape Review

Sprinkled around the San Francisco Bay area are a small number of radically sex-positive communities. Existing since the late 60's, they are dedicated to: Communal living, deep respect of female energy and empowerment, couples/group communication skills, safe-sexing information far beyond the realm of most public knowledge, and extreme enhancement of sensuality and orgasm skills. I admit to bias; I've experienced this milieu and love it.

Several of these communities give personal development courses which can be used to enrich the lives of individuals, or to provide the foundation of pleasurable life in a communal setting.

Another group giving such training is the Welcomed Consensus (get it?... well-comed consensus); presently, their schedule of courses is by far the most ambitious. This videotape was produced by them.

The "D.O. Volume I" tape is, on the surface, a very bare-bones effort. No background music sets a romantic mood. The single camera is on a tripod, and rarely moves. I do not regard these as being drawbacks; this is a no bullshit classroom exhibit of a woman being put into one helluva extended orgasm. Lack of camera cuts and editing preserves the experience of the viewer being a student; this demonstration is a part of their regular curriculum.

After a brief introduction, a woman confidently disrobes and lies on a table with her legs spread open and crotch facing the camera. She is then manually brought into what they call a "Deliberate Orgasm", which ascends and lasts through the rest of the tape. Emphasis is on precise clitoral excitement. She is able to respond to questions about the experience. The goal is the production of female orgasm, and not foreplay. Female anatomy, a variety of manual strokes, and clinical signs of orgasm are detailed.

This woman has been trained to intensely "come on command", in any setting. The man giving stimulation is an instructor with focused experience revving up thousands of clits. In other words, this is a more "show off" tape demonstrating what is possible than a basic tutorial guaranteeing success to beginners.

Nonetheless, a lot of valuable information is given. Every phrase in the tape is important and greatly elaborated in classes. I regard "D.O. Volume I" and a similar tape produced by others, "The Art of Extended Orgasm", to be important additions to sexual education. These people are into head-to-toe life- changing orgasms, and are very adept at it. Experiencing such intense physical pleasure is an invaluable tool for other studies, such as Tantra.

I recently loaned this video to a male acquaintance and asked his reaction. He disdainfully said, "It's nothing but giving a girl a hand job!" I didn't respond, but know several women who have found his sexual technique very disappointing. Our culture places great barriers to giving and receiving unlimited pleasure; the "D.O. Volume I" is produced by aficionados who have dedicated themselves to the craft of sensuality. Sadly, most people will be unable to grasp what is going on. For those able to admit they are students, workshops and videotapes can be very important.

It's a mistake to dismiss such ecstasy as basic, beginner's stuff; this is a valid path that just gets better and better. The physical pleasure we can perceive is endless.

Welcomed Consensus have a life which I suspect virtually everyone dreams of, but few know how to explore. "D.O. Volume I" shows a thin slice of the scene in these communities. If you only watch it once, you're probably missing the point.

  M.B.

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12/4/96


Got the video yesterday after I had sent the inquiry to you. Thanks for the quick service.

J and I watched it once yesterday. We tried what we had learned out last night. Amazing.

We already practiced pleasuring each other manually, and J responded well to my touch, which was to move a well lubricated finger over the clitoral shaft, both sides and circular and side to side. Only for brief seconds would I stimulate within the opening of her clitoral hood. My finger seemed too much there, although the tip of my tongue worked OK there.

I had apprehensions from watching the film, that the situation seemed too much like male dominance/female submission and had taken a cautious view of 'orgasm on command or demand' J's reaction was far from feeling dominated. She participated freely, which was different for her. She usually takes the attitude that whatever I produce is what she gets and that's all she wants. Last night she kept me well informed of her level of arousal and let me know if I was missing the point (pardon the pun).

We started from an unaroused condition, and positioning myself exactly as was shown in the video I applied a little lubricant, pressed my right thumb lightly on her perineum and concentrated on the 1:00 O'Clock position of the tip of her clitoral hood. When after three or four minutes I moved under the hood and came back to the upper left quadrant, she reported great feeling. Within a few minutes she said it was like an orgasm but she didn't want to have it end. We continued for about 12 to 15 minutes with J rising and falling slightly but continuing in what she described as a state of orgasm and unlike anything she had ever experienced before. We would have gone on longer, but my back was killing me because I had not started in a relaxed position and have lower back problems.

J wanted to reach complete resolution so we continued with our traditional mutual manipulation. She went over with forceful contractions lasting over one minute, which is normal for her, to complete resolution in the Johnson and Masters pattern, after her ministrations to me and my excitement at her pleasure caused me to ejaculate on her leg.

My understanding from following the student journals and the video is that by not reaching the point where a girl goes into complete resolution, but by providing pelvic/pudendal relief through manual pressure at the end of a session of continuous orgasmic experience, she maintains a state of arousal and joy through out the day, and is ready to begin orgasmic experience with little additional stimulation. J reported over a minute after I quit finger stimulation that she was still having orgasm contractions and enjoyment. She did not want to remain in that unsatisfied state, however, which led to our additional activities. My guess is that she would reach a point of satisfaction without needing to feel complete resolution. Johnson and Masters initially felt that continued lack of total resolution might be harmful. I'd like more input on this concern.

Many years ago I obtained a copy of 'ESO, Extended Sexual Orgasm.' I was never able to share it with my partner at the time or later my second wife. I had loaned the book out before I met J, who is now my wife, partner in life and vocation, and friend, and I don't know where the book is. I don't think it matters, you explain better.

Keep up the good work,

'For God sent His Son into the world that we might have life, and have it more abundantly.' John 3.

  B.W.

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9/30/96


Wendy and RJ: Thanks for providing me a home delivery of your tape. Just some brief feedback. As you know, I am direct so understand that my comments are meant as a critique for the next version and not as negative criticism. In fact, we have never seen any sex, sensual massage or similar tapes so our opinion is not clouded by any of this baggage, only by our history.

Overall, your tape is a good idea as many are clueless and need some gentle assistance. We did in fact learn a few things such as the pressure point where your thumb rested for some time. It was positive that you folks explained your philosophy and mission in life. The video does accomplish your goal but you may wish to consider the following:

Sound: especially in the beginning, the sound was poor and should be remixed.

Camera: more close-ups and varying angles. Terminology: it was awkward to mix slang with medical terms like pussy and vagina. Don't know the solution and maybe it is just us, but depending on your audience, layperson or professional, you lose credibility with one or the other so why mix the terminology.

Audience: did not add much, was somewhat uneven; questions could have been garnered in a 'dry run' and then used as bullet points during the shoot; interfered with the pace and timing

Point of view: again, don't know the intention but thought that it would be more effective if there were only two people in the scene; a female voice-over could make the presentation more intimate and believable, less clinical, if that is your goal

Interaction: many mixed messages; RJ was very matter of fact during the tape so the kiss at the end was out of context; if the focus had been with only two people, additional affection and interaction could soften the scene; in positioning RJ with three women, he appeared to be a cult-leader or harem rajah; this was reinforced by RJ's comment about 'keeping Sheri from going over the edge' and at times Sheri appeared to be in a trance or a state (I know sex is a drug) so it would be helpful to explain, first person, her levels of intensity and orgasmic state, as her moaning could be confusing to some, do all the women in your house react similarly? In presentations, the rule is to tell the audience what you intend to do and your motivation, do what you said, then tell the audience what you did. This is very easy to say and sometimes difficult to remember. In surveys, the rule is to pose the questions you want answered and provide multiple choice answers (and fill in the blanks) to the respondent. Then create new questions from comments and fill in answers. Not many people would answer a survey which is a blank piece of paper.

In summary, the video lived up to its billing and for that you all should be commended. We did not find the video confrontational, unless my above comments reveal such a reaction. We did find it direct but it was not threatening. This reaction does not mean that we are totally open minded but merely experienced. I noticed at the end there is a list of other videos but I thought that this was the only one available now. Hope the comments help. Hope you folks succeed in your efforts to promote better communication and higher sex between partners.

  H.K.

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7/16/96


I think that anyone could watch this video with their mate without feeling embarrassed. It was so clinical that at first I questioned it, but then that's the main reason it's unintimidating. There was still one confusing part for me. When you said that Sheri was a trained woman and that meant that she would orgasm on command, how does that make her different from other women? Is it that not every woman would have an orgasm if you were to DO her or that not every woman could last as long in orgasm? For some reason that lack of complete response sticks in my mind. I think that there is a misunderstanding throughout the world as to how to please a woman and that this instructional video has a needed place to fill in our society. The video itself could perhaps be placed on our video rental store and library shelve within the educational sections, if they had child guards on them. It will be a great challenge to achieve this but it can be done. The profits would be enormous if the stores were to rent them out, after all video rental saved Hollywood. Of course there could be problems getting them into the stores in certain counties, but all in all it could lead to mass marketing.

  J.G.

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6/14/96


...We watched part of the video last night. My main thoughts were 1) what a great idea to spread the word about your course, 2) this will revolutionize people's sex lives! and 3) I really GOT how service oriented RJ is! heh! J. is already telling his friends about the video, and I told him we should have courses at his house!! I am going to watch it again tonight since we were so tired we fell asleep!

Whoo hoo - rock and roll!!! See you next week!

Love

  M.F.

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