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Green-Eyed Monster (GEM)



When I first started thinking about taking this course, I wanted to feel less jealousy. I am glad that I waited a year because now I do not want to feel less but rather handle my feelings differently. I really flashed when Susan was talking about getting someone to trust you. Everybody just wants what they want and getting it is a lot of fun. Making someone believe you are trustworthy to get what you want is win-win.
They have trust and have whatever it is you wanted.

Jealousy and having different viewpoints is really why I took this course. I feel jealous so much of the time. When RJ said that the amount you are jealous is the amount you hold out how much fun you can really be , I thought "Holy smokes, I can be so much more fun!" What a great tool! When I feel jealous, I can just know how much I hold out.

I also liked hearing about running charge up or down. Another great tool to have!

I feel I am a lot better equipped to be deliberate about what direction I am going in and how quickly I am going to travel.

  -D.B.

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Choose fun, fun is our agreement. Be together as long as it is fun.

The last time RJ asked me what I was thinking, I was feeling hexed about being surveyed during the last break and I was trying to remember if I said anything goofy.

I am so happy to be getting closer to you guys and I am very grateful that D wants orgasm and fun. I feel like I got more than my monies worth just in resolve and confidence that I am on the right path. Thank you.

  -B.B.

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I really loved talking about my goal to start a house and when RJ kept saying how I am just no fun and a victim, and it kept coming up, it felt really good to laugh about it. I really liked, "What ever I want." I want what I want that's what I get.

I really enjoyed having most members of the WC teaching and being here and feeling all of your fun energy. Thanks again, I am blasted.

  -L.R.

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I loved when RJ asked the question to us, "What questions do you have about having more fun?, that's what this course is about." I thought this is one of the few places to go to have my life get better and to have more fun.

  -N.M.

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This course helped me in how to manifest in being fun and having fun, making choices that will get me what I want and motivate me to be a villain and be 100% responsible for my thoughts that manifest in the actions for the desired results.

Thank you for you warm hospitality and wonderful food.

  -M.T.

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I am exhausted! For a minute I couldn't remember what the name of this course is. For the past two days a total of I and people have been immersed into a dialogue of wants, desires, having, money, sex, possessions, orgasm, jealousy, and it hasn't been all talking. Since we spent this weekend together night and day, we've been living it, interacting in words and thought. So much.

  -H.J.

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I felt like this course was made for me. It's happening at exactly the right time. The material about havingness, serving, putting *everything* in to get *everything* out are things I'm experiencing on a daily basis. RJ, when you talked about fighting for your life every day, I really related to that. I was feeling that just *this morning*!

RJ, when you said to Terry that she could savor and enjoy wanting to approve of Rachael (be more responsible for her feelings), I really related to that. I thought about me savoring and enjoying where I am now and wanting *more*

Thank You,

I'm really starting to understand what giving is about, Sheri-Thank you for preparing me for this course!!

Love,

  -A.W.

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I realized from the moment I stepped in the room the course had already started because all the front row seats were in some one else's "possession" and I was *jealous* that they were gone. I learned a lot about having fun with jealousy. I realize that if I can be nice and have fun with another person's jealousy that will give me access to fun when I'm jealous of them. I really noticed this when my boyfriend, S.R., whispered to me that he "doesn't get jealous". When I told RJ this and RJ said "so he didn't notice when you flashed me".

It was fun to see him be jealous so he could notice his own b.s.

  -K.S.

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Amazing course. I now have a tool with which to deal with my jealousy of other women: include myself. This gives me an opportunity to keep my sanity as well as bond with the women I want to be closer to.

I had a chance to realize that I have been choking on the surplus in my life, thereby limiting my level of havingness.

You guys gave me so many ideas about how to swallow and have more. I'm left with the urge to find others right and give generously!

I love you all.

  -C.K.

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I feel incredibly turned on right now! I have been enjoying already watching and appreciating my friends having fun and getting what they want. It feels good to feel good about other people having good. My two biggest flashes I had during the course was at the last break when Neshoma reminded me what RJ said about I could enjoy the anticipation of the good and I saw clearly how much attention I have been putting on my resistance and feeling fear as opposed to my desire. I've known it all along and now feel that I am on the cusp of starting to live it and acknowledging the turn on. Last night when hearing about Rachael's date stopped the sensation for moving into the gut wrenching, mind-twisting, violent thought provoking stage and I at last experienced jealousy as fun!

I love you guys and feel closer to each of you this trip down, and feel more of an integral part of this family then ever. Thank you for my life!

Love,

  -T.G.

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What a ride…There was so much information, my brain is in overload. The most poignant moment came when I realized that trusting anyone sets you up for betrayal. Knowing that all people will do what they want, gives a sense of solidity to the roller coaster ride that we find ourselves on. Thanks so much, and I can't wait until you teach Beauty and the Beast!

  -A.B.

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Thank you again WC for another great course, specifically:

* I paid full price for this class, $250, and as soon as I gave the goals of wanting my debt and Confirmation course paid for, I could feel how worth it every penny I paid was. I could feel that declaration waving throughout the room, and my body.

· I liked the part about sensual aristocracy, giving away all the surplus I have because I can afford it.

· I liked it when RJ said one can swallow and fly at the same time-every time during the class when I had the thought that I was getting full, I remembered that and relaxed.

· I got higher and higher as the course went on and by the end--right now-I'm shaking I'm so high.

I love you guys.

Thank you for my abundant incredible life!

Love,

  -R.S.

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An excellent course as usual. I noticed / learned that the game is played on multiple levels. Frames: - When RJ was talking to Terry about her turn-on and tumescence, I'd noticed it earlier in the day, but didn't know what it was until he'd pointed it out. Will watch for it more.

- Harvey, sheesh, this guy messes with everyone. A couple of times I noticed Harvey paying attention to Rachael, while the room was focused on J, B, S, R, C, what an incredible idea. Way to go H!

- I got the fact that women would be so much more happier if they approved of themselves more.

- I will have more frames in the coming days I'm sure.

Thanks again guys. Awsome! --

  -K.T.

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