I'm completing day 2 of this 7-day course experience, and I'm grateful for how refreshing and liberating this experience is.
How refreshing to know I can experience the sensuality that I have silently longed for but never believed possible.
How liberating to feel the effect of my own sensuality pulsating throughout every fiber of my body – it's joy, ecstasy, and orgasm being felt on the level of all 5 senses and conceptual thought.
What a gift it is to experience mind-altering, heart-opening, soul-gratifying orgasm with my beloved.
I feel so alive!
I feel so energized!
Thanks WC for making this possible for ME.
I was impressed by the transitions, starting with the most significant first stroke that was related to going from near zero to high pleasure. The changes of the strokes relating to the changes of the experiences also impressed me. Feeling the energy from watching and having my hand on Sheri's leg activated my senses and awareness.
I wondered what challenges I may have doing what seemed so very natural for two experienced Doers. While observing, I became a participant and questioner – entering the scene on a Doer and observer DOing.
During talk: I noticed how RJ's discussion of how the session would unfold before, during and after sent surges of energy through my own body. The whole room was orgasmic.
During the session: I was very aware of the changes in Sheri's skin and how her entire countenance lit up with a lovely radiance that wasn't there prior to the session.
I was really tuned in to the subtle yet profound sensations I was feeling in my own body as Sheri peaked and then gradually moved from peaking to "decreasing" the peak experience of orgasm.
After the session: There was such radiance and beauty flowing from Sheri. I could feel her tranquility and mellowness as though it was my experience as well.
At end of the segment, noticing how "high" and "good" I feel. Lots of energy surging through my entire body. Feeling very sensual and my sexual energy is very strong. I'm feeling really "turned on."
This whole segment has raised my awareness of when I'm relying on "vias" to communicate versus allowing my words to effectively communicate ...
During (one of the exercises) I felt ... pulsing surges of energy running between my legs, around my thighs, and my whole "pussy" was turned on.
1) Noticing my sensuality expressed in my own body – lips are bright red and engorged; clear and bright eyes; lots of energy moving and pulsating throughout my body.
2) Noticing my own appetite for pleasure and experiencing the tools of Common Sensuality and Communication to get what I want to gratify that appetite.
3) Experiencing how deliberate communication and deliberate touching greatly enhanced my DO date with J because it creates space for us to bring our intention to pleasuring my body.
4) Experiencing that raising intention is the catalyst for having our DO date be a win/win. I could clearly see the difference in quality of our DO dates once we were introduced to use of the training cycle as an integral part of our DO dates. Level of intention was raised so profoundly that the pleasure in my body seemed boundless with pulsating in primary and secondary pressure zones. I could feel myself getting higher and higher.
Through the application of the Common Sensuality exercises, I learned how to exploit the use of 5 senses and conceptual thought to raise my awareness of how sexual energy builds in my body. I gained a better sense of how and what turn me on. I noticed that the more I relaxed during masturbation... the more sensation I could feel throughout my body.
During my DO Dates, I noticed that using the training cycle would raise my level of pleasure as well as raising tumescence of my partners; I could feel the pulsations in J's fingers vibrating my clit during my use of the training cycle as I had him win.
Overall, I felt the safeporting and deliberate communications really raised both J and my ability to more consciously place our attention on each other and win. Each DO date builds our connection and is progressively more pleasurable. Yum!
Hearty thanks to the Welcomed Consensus for having me win with my goal of experiencing mind altering, heart-opening, soul-gratifying orgasm.
The course was intense - filled with information. The information would pulsate, starting slow; it would develop until it changed from being just information, to being experiential, from being experiential to being a technique. The intensity was both exhausting and energizing. Specifically, My assumptions about the nature of the society I live in and the role of sensuality are changing. This led to a totally different view of the nature of men and women, conditioning, training and the art of seduction and communication.
My state of consciousness is different than it was when I started this course. My awareness of the ways that I can avoid connection either as the cause or the effect has changed dramatically. . . . The exercises forced me to confront patterns that could not have been exposed more rigorously or safely. From the first exercise I had to confront my notion of how to help someone succeed. I began by not wanting to be "critical." Gradually, actually quickly, I understood that if I withheld telling my partner what they were doing, my partner would feel worse and progress more slowly. This reinforced my increasing awareness, the more I saw and communicated, the more they corrected and connected, the better we got, the more aware I became. Maintaining connection, intention and attention at this level of detail is a true life lesson.
. . . I noticed that I felt more connected, more present. This course was designed to connect pleasure to communication and succeeded marvelously. In the beginning I had to learn to set my intention, state my intention . . . Both setting and stating my intention really required focus and the exercises and coaching brought me along slowly and skillfully. Before I started this course I had great difficulty stating directly what I wanted or even knowing what I wanted. As the course progressed I became more aware of how to ask for little things that I wanted.
. . . Another highlight was the training cycle and the exercises that we did to develop proficiency. One exercise with D doing the training cycle was so powerful that I was doing what she wanted me to do and was eager to do the next thing and happy to have had the opportunity. It was the first time that I have had total experience of giving the pleasure someone asked for and being told how much it was appreciated that they got what they had asked for. Before taking this course I thought that I knew how to communicate with a woman about sensuality and how to be sensual together. Now I know that I didn't know how to communicate. This course showed me how with specifics.
Highlights of the courses overall and my week with the WC was first and foremost the level of sustained attention that I felt was given to me by the WC. I felt the attention and the intention to share the information in the best way possible. The detail in the courses was conveyed through exercises and everyone seemed to know what level of detail I could take in when I asked questions . . .
. . . I had the major realization that, even though I had set fun as my number one goal even before I had heard of the WC, I had bought into the pain society underpinning my views. I leave with the knowledge that a pleasure society is possible and that it is my choice.
Another highlight was understanding the nature of sex appeal. As I take pleasure in my body, focusing on the things I like about my body, I feel tingly all over and the world is different.
When I came for this week, friends asked why. They wondered why I would come if I read about it and saw the tapes. I told them it was like learning to dance. You get shown a waltz but you still need a teacher to get it. Since being here I see the comparison continuing. With the dance when you are learning you see the steps but you don't see how the communication works with your partner. I realize that I have just gotten my first taste of that communication in sensuality. More training is needed . . . On leaving, I can happily say that my goals of having fun and learning to DO a woman were not only met but met in a way that allows me to be confident that I can carry the success home.
First- Thank you so much! This has been a remarkable week.
You have delivered on the goals of gratifying K-She is right now! Of teaching me how to get her off better than she can do herself, of gratifying me and teaching me about intimacy with freedom.
The course worked on two levels:
(i) Discovering sensuality physically through the senses and learning how to build it to superior orgasm, and
(ii) Re-framing how I have held women and how I have done relationship. Where there was once such fear and pain and confusion, I now look forward to the pushes and pulls of the seduction cycle.
I thank you also for the help you have given Kathryn. What she described as “turning her head around.” I have heard, even taught teachings about responsibility before, but I never saw where you have taken it.
The communication work was excellent. We knew we needed to communicate better and the discoveries about unadorned intention, approval and acknowledgement are an important foundation. The training cycle is an exquisite tool. I know we will make really good use of it from here on.
The greatest treat of all perhaps was your energy. We have been bathed, nourished and enlightened by the substance of your orgasm-many orgasms, many, many strokes, each connecting us with the universal orgasm. I have never been able to feel that as directly or as tangibly as I can right now.
My life is changed forever…
Love, D
There is no way for me to fully “grok” all the changes that have happened for me this week. It’s as if a huge door has opened before me and I will have the choice over and over whether to walk through it.
The elements of seduction and confrontation were particularly helpful for me. Learning how they work after having them used on me was masterful. I now have a whole different way to live by taking responsibility for myself, writing my herstory, acknowledging my own turn-on and power, telling the truth, asking for what I want, approving of my man, making sure it’s win-win, getting a lot of DO dates and de-tumescing myself when it’s my responsibility. Oh, and acknowledging that I always have a choice.
The surround was great-always someone putting us at effect, showing us how to treat each other, I especially felt the care of the women here, how they were rooting for me every step of the way. There was kindness without letting me get by with anything. I learned a lot about teaching by example from them.
Also, I’m into journaling for the first time and that’s fun. I will continue that.
I get the sensual researcher cap as well and want to continue my curiosity through the senses, learning to look more closely at every “stroke” of my life.
Last, but not least, there is a huge healing piece to all this. I’ve seen how I can confront my fear of resuming exploration, that as I do this by having more fun, life can just get better and better.
I am bonafide Sensualist!
What an experience! Before I met the Welcomed Consensus, I was having orgasm by default, sex was good, sometimes, when my boyfriend would seduce me into it. My life is changed, my fears subsiding, my desires fulfilled. I just lay down under a beautiful purple quilt and began stroking my clit, stroking my body like I've never done before, and I thought, "I can make myself happy, I CAN HAVE ALL THE PLEASURE I WANT." What a gift, these tools are fool proof, no waiting by the slot machines for a win, It's a jackpot every time!
Wow I got so high. There was a point in the first do with K. that my finger wouldn't stop vibrating. I felt like I had stuck my hand in a light socket, I had. I enjoyed the direct attention by the validated women. They gave me a bunch of information that I used. Francoise was stern and coaching with me. At first my ego leapt up and I thought I know what I'm doing. I dropped that after realizing I didn't. Her instruction was accurate and flawless. Everything she said worked and I felt like I was doing it right. I feel like I am comfortable where a woman's spot is. I had it all wrong before and didn't even know it. God, knowing your right feels good. She empowered me to know I'm right on my own. This feels like such a large step toward N.'s hour orgasm.
We are only on our second day of Exploration in Sensuality and I've already learned so much. S. and I have already increased our communication while sexing to a much higher degree. I never realized that communicating while sexing actually increases the turn on and at the same time has you get what you want so that you and your partner are experiencing the high at the same time, and actually experiencing an exchange of each others turn on. I've never felt this close or had this much fun with S. or any partner! You could walk into this course with your worst enemy and walk out friends! The instructors are masters at safe-porting you every step of the way so you never feel like your being pushed into anything you don't absolutely agree with. The ranch where they teach the course is beautiful and really feels like a safe retreat to be self-expressed.
OK, so I've been in this Exploring Sensuality Course since yesterday morning not knowing really what to expect. So far my expectations have been vastly exceeded. I was expecting mostly lecture, questions & answers and demonstrations. Instead I got descriptions of what to do & exercises. The exercises included learning to ask permission to look at my girlfriend, K. The exercises progressed into using communication techniques to give her an Orgasm that got us higher then we've ever been. You know that kind of high when you're standing at the end of that climb or race or whatever and you came in Number One! Getting K. orgasmicly high has become the biggest pleasure in my life... Then having K. get me hard the way that I would do myself was worth the $5,000 of this course. Another part I just loved was the seduction lecture. I consider myself a romantic seducer but the lecture on seduction was beyond anything I ever learned before. What have they got for us next?
From the depths of my prejudices to my best fantasies this course has far surpassed my expectations and was beyond anything I've ever done. And I've done a lot-many courses and programs to give me more freedom and be a better me. This course made me do something that I couldn't anywhere else-honestly confront. Confront the way I think of myself-what I'm up to and what I want. Like the incredible conversation with K last night that gave me freedom and choice. When she said after that that was what she wanted and needed to hear I knew I had broken through something (my own fear of losing) that I had wanted to do something about for a long time-but I didn't even understand what it was.
Confront the human body. The prejudices of both female and make anatomy. Having so much resistance to the exercises gave me insight into my male prejudice. Like when she ran out in an argument we had about the clock and I was left sitting to mull over how ridiculous it was for me to upset her and be left by myself over a "few moments in time". That look on her face of pain, that feeling I get of being right and better and "know-it-all". It gave me a chill and gave me pause to feel.
Confront my own way of living. I live my life without research into my own pleasure. I live without regard for orgasm, for the superior state of relationship and friendship. I live without feeling the common courtesies. This course ran on our appetites. As I got higher with K all the ways of my life seemed so petty. Once as I was doing K a thought in my head was doing her during lunch at work. We talked about it and it made us laugh. The chair I'll need in my office. The life I've led without that seems rude. How could I not take time to give K orgasm just because I'm working!
RJ was right-this course has given me more problems. I now see the need for constant research. The simple act of turning away from pleasure is now abhorrent. I want to feel fun and pleasure and love and woman's orgasm. I'm so glad I have these new problem. Thank you Welcomed Consensus
I came into this course not knowing what to expect and boy did the Welcomed Consensus ever deliver! In the Communication Course I learned that putting the focus on another person is a choice that we have. When you take your attention off yourself life is a lot more fun! I really noticed this when I was doing the eye exercises. When the attention was on me my eyes would tear and get sore. As soon as I focused on my partner those symptoms disappeared. This whole week has felt like a roller coaster ride. When I was really high the whole day seemed magical. I remember one frame when I was standing in the kitchen and S was slicing an orange and I really wanted a piece of orange, without saying anything he just came over and put the plate in front of me. As I am writing this he just came in the room with a plate of sliced oranges-that made me cry. Another frame is when we went for a walk in the woods and I felt so present to all the different aromas. Really fresh air, bark, pine, soil and the sound of snow crunching under our shoes-it just felt so great to be alive. There are so many other benefits to better orgasm that go beyond the sensation in your pussy.
At the beginning of this course I decided to quit smoking. I was amazed that I only had cravings about three time the whole week. I also noticed I didn't snack anymore than I normally do and I stayed even tempered. I also had my period this week and I noticed I didn't experience any symptoms of fatigue, mood swings, bloatiness or cramps. This is a direct result of this course and I know I could not have achieved these results in any other program. Achieving better orgasm is the best gift anyone can give themselves. I cannot believe the difference this course has made for S and I and our relationship. W.C. really worked with us as teachers and as friends in helping us build a foundation of gratitude and respect for each other and giving us invaluable tools to take home with us so we can keep working towards better orgasm and a better friendship. I really noticed that a lot of the changes in our relationship came form me not approving of S. Now I realize I always have the choice-to approve and be fun or not approve and make my life miserable! That was really powerful for me. I'm realizing what an ungrateful woman I've been and I'm really happy to leave that in the past and appreciate everything I have around me-especially S.
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