A beautiful, beautiful course. I didn't think it was possible but I had even more fun in this course than the first time I took it.
It all came together during the last section when RJ mentioned that you can't create Deliberate Orgasm if you hold it that you don't know how to DO it. I suddenly flashed on what I already know: that I had been winning in DOing and with women in general since the first Common Sense course I took... and that the process and the fun increased exponentially since [taking the Communication and TLC courses]. I simply have not lost with women since then. The only loss I had was the one I created myself by holding those two opposing levels of awareness. Thank you Susan, Wendy, Terry, RJ for all the attention and niceness in your answers. I learned a great deal from how you all responded and held the other members of the course and held them as right and winning.
I have never thought about giving fun and pleasure the highest importance. My guiding force was always No pain, without gain and I used this throughout my life.
Fortunately that belief is no longer there. My guiding force now is fun, everything I do now would be in the context of fun and pleasure.
The concepts about communication and seduction were great. It is perfectly fine to seduce a woman, after all that is what they want. Having this from the women and instructors in the Welcomed Consensus was a great light bulb moment.
The philosophy of giving fun the highest importance was the biggest take-away from this course. The next thing I would take away from this course is putting on my sensual researcher cap and exploring my partner's and my sensuality uninhibitedly.
Thank you Welcomed Consensus for teaching me the course with warmth, intimacy and open-mindedness.
Carefully crafted vocabulary and exact delivery of the material felt rigid at first. Then it made sense to do it that way so that preconceived notions be bypassed and new framework received.
Challenging input to reassess how I relate to my wife.
The course gave a practical path to start implementing Deliberate Orgasm (DOing) in my relationship.
... We had more fun together than I could imagine.
I was kept at the edge of my seat just about the whole time, asking questions and challenged by the notions and wording.
Teachers were very responsive to question albeit sticklers to the exact formulation they evolved from years of experimentations: It commands attention.
I really learned a lot from this course. Since this was my first course learning about the woman's vagina, clit, etc. was all new to me. Giving a woman an orgasm, and receiving an orgasm from a woman was all new to me. I learned so much during this course and am very thankful to the Welcomed Consensus for sharing their knowledge with me and all of the other students.
Some of it was subtle twists on "facts" or accepted practices. Some/most were radical, new. I would never have imagined them. All of the ideas gave me a new paradigm, a new set of lenses to view communication and sensuality.
I know my goals were modest. Now I want to go beyond them!
Hearing other student's exercise experiences was a real eye opener. I have never shared such intimate details before, and doing so opened up my mind. Thank you,
Personally I really enjoyed the course. It gave me a lot of information that will come in very handy in my future relationships and the ones I have now. I really enjoyed the information about seduction, and I would really be interested in learning more. I feel great and even after sitting on my ass for 9 hours. The information was so good that I was happy to sit still and absorb this information. I really loved doing the exercises and felt even more in touch with my senses than before. I am very happy to say I will be a much better piece of ass and seducer after this information was given to me. I would definitely consider taking it again.
After taking the course I'm grateful for a new perspective on commitment in a relationship (and in life) where the basic tenant is FUN instead of work. I'm looking forward to the *Wednesday Flashes*.
What an empowering weekend! The level of communication by the members of the Welcomed Consensus was always complete and detailed. I was encouraged to ask further questions throughout the course. I also felt very comfortable with members of the Welcomed Consensus. I now understand how valuable and unique their courses are. The sensuality course allowed me to truly expand the ways that I better relate with, understand and sensually/sexually experience the women I love. The course empowered me and has taught me far more effective ways to communicate with and satisfy a woman. This experience is a "gift" for me to continue to "unwrap" and explore in the future. After a year of "thinking about" taking this course, I now feel so fortunate that I called and enrolled.
I have taken this course several times, the last time was five years ago and it was a completely new course. Although the information was the same it seemed as if it was brand new, because I am in a completely different place than I was before. It was a ride of highs and lows, discoveries and confrontations. Relearning the importance of orgasm, sensuality, friendship and communication has reawakened my senses and awareness of things around me and myself.
It was wonderful to hear how the information was presented by Susan, Wendy, Ken and RJ. It was done in such a manner that was informative, pleasurable, understandable and left me wanting more.
The major thing I noticed and enjoyed was the comfort level I felt throughout the weekend. I felt completely at ease and comfortable receiving the subject matter and asking questions about it. Everyone here contributed to my feelings of comfort.
The demonstrations and stories were excellent and kept my attention riveted.
I felt well taken care of and challenged at the same time. Just like someone being "DOne", I am hungry for more practice and knowledge. I feel like I have been given a gift that will build and grow and enhance every aspect of my life. Thank you!
If there is anything I would like more of, it's examples and stories. For me, they enhance my understanding by providing me with a picture in my mind's eye. I learn and understand best through specific examples and stories told to illustrate a point.
I particularly enjoyed the most intense moments, though they did make me squirm. I deeply appreciate having learned from people with a wealth of sensual experiences, people who have the courage to speak honestly. I appreciate the validation that I can follow my passion for orgasm, that I can follow the path of my desire. I feel that RJ's words went straight into my pores and into my cells and, though I'm swimming in it all right now and couldn't repeat it all back, my being is soaking it in.* All of our teachers spoke with openness and dignity, and I am grateful.
I loved that Francoise and Susan asked us to report on what worked with our homework, and made us stick to discussing what was successful. That made me feel even more turned on by my experience. The idea that we are perfect already, although not a new one to me, sunk in and I started feeling better and better in my own skin.
It felt like a relief to be able to speak openly about sexuality, sensuality, orgasms and the games people play. I feel lighter.
Thank you!
And I leave here feeling like I am going to get a lot more of what I want. Hooray!
*When he was speaking with us, both in the morning and in the afternoon, I felt the atmosphere get thick and my vision felt misty. I could feel myself changing.
I was struck by the clarity, effectiveness and immediacy of the information given.
I was able to receive it as mostly new information. My previous concept about human sexuality, sensuality and relations between men and women were turned upside down.
I feel encouraged with the tools that I have acquired to go back in the world and have a try at it again.
I still feel the sense of freedom that came to me this morning after describing my homework in details.
I had never talked to anyone before about pleasuring myself. This was a great opportunity to learn, expand and confront my boundaries and limitations.
Thank you for the generosity with which you share your life and discoveries.
I'm thankful for the opportunity to take this course again. It was valuable revisiting viewpoints as well as hearing some as if for the first time.
I got clearer about resistance and doubt. Ways to push past that to have fun with men. I flashed that I lie all the time, every minute that I'm not having fun. Also that it's a way of being mean to my friends as well as me.
It was valuable learning about 100% responsibility. That men are really great barrels of love waiting to adore their women. That a relationship or any experience is successful and gratifying in direct proportion to the amount of responsibility taken. I found all the teachers engaging and fun and turned on. The demonstrations were equally engaging, fun and turned on.
I was grateful for the approval with which our questions and experiences were received.
I'm seeing that I have resistance to dropping my resistance (!) to pleasure because it's been a companion for so long.
I've been given some excellent tools this weekend, sound tips for living more freely and having fun. Looking forward to applying these and enjoying the results.
Thank you WC for your sense of fun and willingness to share it.
Better than I expected, sincere teachers. Thank you. RJ's confidence/experience, Wendy's caring, and Susan's love for teaching. I am inspired to continue on the road to "House on Fire" DOing with happy, fun women!
