What DO Women Want?
A Pleasurable Communication Tool...
Deliberate Orgasm Article

What DO women really want?

A woman’s pleasures and desires are always changing, day to day and moment to moment. Noticing your partner and having clear communication, both in and out of the bedroom, are fundamental elements for a fun and thriving relationship.

When there is a lack of communication between partners, many questions remain unanswered, creating mystery and detracting from the fun and pleasure you could be having together. Questions like, "What did she mean by that?" Or, "Was that a ‘good’ moan, or a ‘move your hand to the left’ moan?"

What would you do if you asked your partner "Does that feel good?" and she said "No"?

Even if you recovered from the blow to your ego, how do you know what to do next?

What if she answered "I don't know"?
The possibilities are literally endless, how can you find out what she does like?

On the other hand, what if she said "Yes, I like that". Would you know without a doubt what it was you were doing that pleased her?

Would you feel confident that you could do it again the next time? Or are you still left guessing and in mystery?

The fact is, men do not read minds. It is no surprise that so many men wonder, "Is it possible for me to know exactly what she wants and give it to her every time?" Our answer is an emphatic "Yes"! It is also possible to train your partner to touch you the way you want and have both people win while communicating.

One simple tool to knowing what a woman wants is to notice her and ask winning questions. When you are engaged in a sensual experience, ask a question such as, "Would you like a slower stroke?" Or "Would you like more pressure?" Both a "yes" or a "no" are winning answers, and give you more information about what she wants.

Communication is key to a great sex life, and an essential element of Deliberate Orgasm. What a woman wants may be completely different from one day to the next, even one moment to the next. No matter how long you have known each other, learning to ask winning questions will allow you to find out exactly what she wants, every time.

Asking winning questions is one part of the
Training Cycle, a communication tool explained and demonstrated in the Better Orgasm through Better Communication DVD, available in the
Deliberate Orgasm Video Series.

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