Posted by Posted by Kellye on November 22, 1998 at 14:54:(reposted) on November 25, 1998 at 10:03:

I don't think anyone,male or female, would be able to literally tell or know if
you, "have cummed recently or if" you are in a "lacking state." And though,
there are some people attracted to what it sounds as if you are describing, a
negative side of vulnerable, MOST healthy, happy people are, I think, drawn
(for a myriad of reasons) to other happy, healthy people.

Some studies have shown that people tend to attribute postitive attributes and
feelings toward individuals they consider 'attractive' and some studies have
shownthat anxiety and negativism in pregnant women can change 'chemistry'
enough that her fetus' development can be impaired. So, who knows? Maybe a
feeling of sexual and sensual satiation and contentment makes our very cells
'work' in such a way that our chemistry can change with how we feel and
unbeknownst to us OR the recipients, maybe our phermones (spelling?) change,
maybe our electrolights (?) produce some kind of little field around us and are
really somehow good to some people and draw them to us (and then perhaps
the flirting comes into conscious play)--and send others away...all on a level we
are not aware of or come close to understanding. I'm guessing because
obviously I don't know but I'm certainly open to our having abilities and
'intelligences' that we don't understand.

I will bet that you do act differently when you are well cummed as opposed to
'in a lacking state' and vulnerable, as you put it.

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