Posted by JF on July 30, 2010 at 21:24:

Hi,

My fiance and I have a very healthy sex life. We have been together for over a year and are in our late 40s working towards our second marriages for each of us.

When we first got together, her response to me and her orgasmic ability was very strong. She was able to orgasm by kissing her neeck or breasts and she was able to ejaculate easiily.

After the first few months this has stopped. When we discuss this, she says that her orgasmic ability goes in waves and that she is in a low wave. She had maintained the ability to ejaculate for the better part of the 10 years before we met.

I want to give her that gift again. She really enjoyed how she used to be. That being said, she does not see any problem with how she is now but I can pick up from some comments she makes that she thinks about it.

So my question is, are there periods in one's life where their ability or orgasm will change? Can someone who was able to ejaculate actually lose that abilty?

I am very interested in hearing your responses. I am sure I will have more to ask when I see your posts.

Thank you for you help and knowledge.

J

Follow Ups:

• Re: Womans orgasmic ability over their lifetime - Sara 22:10 8/02/10
• Hi J - DavidH. 11:59 8/01/10
  • Re: Hi J - J 14:02 8/01/10