Posted by J.G. on April 06, 2010 at 15:25:

In Reply to: Re: Right on the money posted by Robin on March 28, 2010 at 10:09:

Thanks Robin! Wonder if there are more folks have to add thoughts to add?

This has been one of the more remarkable series of posts I have ever seen here. What I sense unfolding here and I see it in my own love life is my lover has not only become relaxed but she has transcended out of her thinking mind to experiencing her body and the sensations it creates as a sensual journey. This is radically different from the way she thought of rapid climatic orgasm – something to be achieved rapidly so it would be over.

Any deviation form that regiment brought considerable sarcasm and resentment. But little by little the prescriptions above described over the years -- it was her body not her mind that became accustomed to first peaking (complaining it was not over -did not end there), but her body kept relaxing and seeking more slowness more light and varied strokes, more softer peaks but sometimes rapid ones. Damned if a "dome orgasm" is possible. She still seems intellectually clueless but her body is now expectant and eager to last and last and enjoy – the mind’s strident objections seem to not question the science her body has learned and asks for often.

Several years on and maybe today she still sees a crashing orgasm as the real thing but the range of experience and acceptance of a whole new order of personal enjoyment has been opened. I enjoy sensing that unfold.

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