I'd love to try this, but she usually needs a lot of warm up time to get her in the mood for sex. Sometimes I'll give her a little kiss down there when we're getting ready for a date, but she hasn't been responsive until she's ready. Historically, once she gets aroused, we usually spend a few hours together. Maybe she just isn't ready to spend that much time on short notice, but then we've never tried stopping after a very short time, and for her pleasure only. Any suggestions as to how I might get her interested?