Wow, you hit the nail right on the head - that's exactly what I was doing. Your remarks, and being reminded of the 1 hour orgasm video recently on the forum, encouraged me to give your suggestion a try, and it resulted in 2 hours of orgasmic bliss for my lover. Even after all that time, she was still in her stride so to speak. She's always been a bit reserved, but now starting to become more and more animated and vocal during our dates. I can't wait to feel her responses after I get really good at this.