Bill, your description of your date together is quite fun to read. As a woman, such elaborate sensual experiences are delightful to have. I would not change anything about them but keep on doing the next thing that comes to mind. What I personally added to my relationship is the 3 Minute Orgasm Every Day. 3 minutes when he does me, creates orgasm in my body, there is no goal but to enjoy the sensations we are experiencing together from him stroking my clitoris… And then we get up and do the next thing. So much change from that for us…I would love to see what your lover and you experience if you decide to do that...I am always curious to see if people have similar experiences with this process.