I have the Peaking video and it is my understanding that peaking is used to build the intensity of her orgasm over time. It sounds like you are taking her right near the top and then back down again over and over. I have found if I slow down and 'peak' her at lower levels and then keep going up I am not tempting her with the climax each time and she relaxes into the ride more. I have also taken the Common Sensuality Course, so I have some of my understanding from this. I would really like to see the one hour orgasm demonstration to learn even more.