Posted by Bill on January 30, 2010 at 06:18:

In Reply to: How can I make her want to have sex more often? posted by Sylvia on January 29, 2010 at 18:32:

As I've come to understand it, the traditional concept of orgasm is to build sexual pressure to the point that there is a release, generally referred to as an orgasm. The techniques described on this forum seem to slow this process way down to the point that every stroke can be felt as a peak of arousal, and the so called orgasmic release, or going over, isn't necessary. The WC videos clearly demonstrate this process, and I'd suggest viewing at least one of them of a woman being DOne.

My lover loves to go over, and my objective is to prolong her desire either by gently denying her the release or by exhausting her sexual energy with peaks that are short of an over the top orgasm. I must admit that my motives are somewhat selfish in that I derive a huge amount of pleasure from her responses to my touch, and her going over is not only a wonderful experience for her, but for me too. So far, my experience with not taking her over the top has met with a strong desire to go over, so I do it. I'm hoping that some detailed suggestions on the forum will help me to fine tune things to accomplish my goals.

Follow Ups:

• Re: How can I make her want to have sex more often? - Rose 10:39 1/31/10
  • Re: Exhaust her sexual energy - Bill 11:21 1/31/10
    • Re: Exhaust her sexual energy - James 12:07 2/02/10
      • Re: Right on the money - Bill 20:26 2/03/10
        • Re: Right on the money - Robin 10:09 3/28/10
          • Re: Right on the money - J.G. 15:25 4/06/10
• Re: How can I make her want to have sex more often? - Sylvia 22:04 1/30/10
  • Re: Peaks - Bill 08:24 1/31/10
• Re: How can I make her want to have sex more often? - Angela 15:11 1/30/10
  • more ?? most interesting series of posts - John G 13:15 2/23/10
• Please Clarify “Take Her Over” - Chris5 08:43 1/30/10
  • Re: Please Clarify “Take Her Over” - Bill 13:36 1/30/10