How can I make her want to be sexed more often?[ Welcomed Consensus Home Page ][ The Clit Board! ] [ Clit Board! Archives ] [ Guidelines For Posting ] Posted by Bill on January 28, 2010 at 09:40: My lover and I have a wonderful time when we DO each other, currently once a week during a date which involves a couple of hours of getting ready by relaxing, talking, and sipping wine. I focus on her pleasure, and have tried to make the sexual part so enjoyable for her that she might want it more often. Sometimes I'm so gratified by her responses that I think about it the next day and want more, but she is invariably indifferent to the suggestion, even though she may thoroughly enjoy herself if we DO it again. For some reason I find her indifference to be a huge turn off, maybe because I can't understand how she could experience and express such intense pleasure during our date, but not want to feel it again more often. Maybe I take her over the top too often, or at all, during the date, usually two or three times, very long and very hard. I would love for her to feel a desire for sex between dates, maybe even initiate it, but motivated by her own desire rather than because she knows I want to. In the past, when I've not let her go over, she's said that the feeling just goes away so, and because we both enjoy it when she does, I take her over every time. I think it's time for me to try a new approach to DOing her, and I welcome suggestions. I want to build a fire in her that will make her want more pleasure more often.
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