Posted by Eric B. on January 07, 2010 at 14:51:

I've recently begun dating a 35 year old woman who has been sexually active since she was 17. She revealed to me a few days ago that she has never had a real orgasm.

After hearing this, as her most recent partner I am intimidated by the fact that she admits that she will not orgasm during sex. I do things during foreplay to try and maximize her chances of an orgasm, but with no effect. She likes sex and says it is not me, she has always been like that.

I hope my question is not too ignorant, but is there anything that I can do as a partner to maximize the chances of giving her an orgasm or is there a limit to what a partner can do in a situation like this?

Follow Ups:

• Re: She has never had a real orgasm - Rose 10:29 1/31/10
  • Re: She has never had a real orgasm - James 12:14 2/02/10