In Reply to: Slowing Her Down posted by Bill on November 23, 2009 at 10:15:
There is nothing wrong with taking her over when she wants to have a climax. In fact, it is good to give her all of this that she wants to experience.
One thing that is unclear is if expanding her orgasm is something the two of you talk and are on the same page about. Once communication is open and you both agree about where you are going, then there are potentially lots of tools you can learn and use while DOing her, including over coming her resistance to going for more and longer.