Posted by The Welcomed Consensus on November 07, 2009 at 10:41:

More recent research has determined that orgasm can be experienced as a sustained intense orgasm, for female orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris. Also both males and females can remain in the orgasmic phase for much longer than earlier studies indicate. Deliberate Orgasm research, by the Welcomed Consensus, using Female Orgasm as the model, is contributing to this new view of orgasm. It is now expanding in the mainstream.

Here is a nice article on “Learning the Anatomy of Pleasure” by Wendy Strgar:

“Pleasure is the object, duty and the goal of all rational creatures. –Voltaire

There is a lot about our own sexual anatomy that we never learned growing up. In fact, the anatomical facts of nature have been seriously updated. All of this talk of G spots and female ejaculation has inspired a second look. Who knew that the clitoris is not just a magic button crowning the vagina, but was proclaimed by Masters and Johnson as “a unique organ in the total of humanity.” The organ, with over 8000 nerve endings, twice as many as the penis, has actually 18 parts both visible and invisible. It is so complex and extends so deeply into the pelvis that is now actually considered an organ system. The clitoris is now widely considered homologous to the penis with more structural similarities than differences. This new understanding of the function of the clitoris as an intricate network capable of a vast multitude of unique and powerful orgasmic sensations literally changes the map to pleasure.

The same could be said of the male sexual organs. The anxiety that many, if not most, men feel about their penis size is as universal as the misconception that it is the penis that is the ringleader when it comes to sexual satisfaction and prowess. “We equate masculinity and power with penis size,” says Ira Sharlip, MD, clinical professor of urology at the University of California at San Francisco and president of the International Society for Sexual Medicine. “Of course, there’s really no relationship.” Still, Sharlip says, “all” of his patients want to increase their penis size. Many men are surprised when they move their attention away from the penis to the powerful erogenous zones nearby like the prostate area and scrotum. The penile roots, not unlike the clitoral ones have a whole different arousal capacity and depth.

Our lacking and misguided ideas about our anatomy may be partly to blame for the real problem that plagues so many couples. The incomplete understanding of our own or our partner’s anatomy is often accompanied by the lack of skill building that makes for intense and growing sexual satisfaction. Lets face it–when you are unsure about how or why something happens inside of you, then communicating about it seems impossible. In a recent Men’s Health survey of 5000 men and women, 1 in 5 women rated her partner’s sexual skills as average or worse. Yet over 25 percent of women have never given their partner any feedback about their intimate touch for fear of hurting his feelings. This is a shame considering that when asking men about their openness to sexual feedback, fully 80 percent of men say: “Whatever you want, all you have to do is ask.” An additional 17 percent are open to feedback … if she’s “nice about it.” Only 3 percent say they don’t want to hear anything.

Of the women who have given their men sexual advice, over 64 percent of them said that when they gave their partners feedback on their love skills, they experienced more pleasure. The same was true for nearly 60 percent of men; so why not consider your sexual health as a new and vital home study course? Take the time to update yourselves together with hands-on sexual anatomy lessons.

Taking control of your sexual education is one of the most loving acts you can bring to your relationship. The truth is we were all seriously undereducated and, depending on your background, even deliberately misinformed about our sexual selves and the act of creating pleasure in loving healthy ways. But don’t get too serious about the lessons- the connection between humor and eroticism runs deep in our bones. Remember your childhood games of “playing doctor” or the laughter that erupted from the “gross-out” jokes? Applying this kind of levity and curiosity to re-learning the anatomical map to pleasure will make you laugh and surprise you, maybe even with an orgasm or two.”

For information on a woman’s pleasurable anatomy, read about Female Orgasm

These gratifying contemporary orgasmic experiences are explained and illustrated in the Female Orgasm Videos

This unique set of educational female orgasm videos shows a man and a woman creating this new kind of orgasm in her body. All of the concepts that are demonstrated with female orgasm in the videos also apply to creating that type of orgasm in a man's body.

For information on stimulating the clitoral spots available inside a woman’s body, view Deliberate Orgasm: Manual Penetration while DOing: Thunkspots.

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Learning the Anatomy of Pleasure.

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