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Posted by The Welcomed Consensus on October 31, 2009 at 16:42:

In 1996, the Welcomed Consensus released the first adult sex-educational video on Deliberate Orgasm titled Deliberate Orgasm Volume 1.

This video, which is now in its second edition and available on DVD, was modeled after a course which features a One Hour Orgasm demonstration and was filmed in one take including questions from the audience. The Subtitle: Expanding Female Orgasm was added 8 years later, and is a description of the information that is available in this 40 minute release.

David Shade, adult sex educator and author of several books on pleasuring women, discovered Deliberate Orgasm Volume 1 when a friend loaned him a copy. Initially he didn't think much about the information until his girlfriend was enthusiastic to experiment with the technique. From their experience, David found such value in Deliberate Orgasm, he wrote an entire chapter dedicated to DOing titled "The Welcomed Method"
In it he offers a description of the basic technique of DOing and his experience in applying what he learned with his girlfriend.

Here are some excerpts from The Welcomed Method:

Most women believe that direct stimulation of the naked tip of the clit is too sensitive. My girlfriend said the same thing. When she masturbates, she goes in a circular motion. She also prefers that I touch her clit in the same manner. She does not like the naked tip of the clit to be touched, as it is "too much." She prefers the hood to be rubbed over the clit, providing a "pushing" pressure onto the clit.

My friend Brent lent me a video he ordered from the web site: welcomed.com. The guy in the video certainly seems to know what he is doing. He showed how you must directly touch the naked tip of the clit at its one o'clock position (as looking AT the clit) with the tip of the index finger. In the video he demonstrated on a woman. He rubbed her for about 10 minutes. All the time she was orgasmic, but she never 'came.' I returned the video and thought nothing of it.

One night I told my girlfriend about what I learned in the video and I showed her the web site. I told her that the guy said that "Any clitoris can be touched, when touched right." I said to her "I want to try an experiment." She said "OK! But I'm a little skeptical as in the past direct stimulation has been too powerful."

Just as in the video, I had her lie on her back. I sat to her left side and placed my left arm under her left leg with my hand under her ass with my thumb pressing on her perineum (between her vagina and her anus.) ...Just as in the video, I slid the tip of my right index finger up onto her clitoris. I smeared the lubrication onto her clit and then began to rub the one o'clock position of the naked bulb of the clit... She immediately responded favorably. She said "I LIKE THIS experiment." I tried the 11 o'clock position and asked her if that was any different. She said that the one o'clock position was better. I then tried the six o'clock position, and again she said that the one o'clock position was better. So I went back to that.

Before long, she said "This feels SO good that I don't WANT to cum!" I instructed her to continue to relax totally. She said she was right on the edge. She was in continuous total ecstasy. This continued for about 30 minutes.

We talked about it later and she said "The orgasm was different than any before. The sensation was different. It was like my clitoris was being pulled! It was like I had a penis and it was getting pulled. It is totally unlike the usual rubbing where there is pressure ONTO the clitoris. This was different."

The next day she said "Every time I think about it, I get really horny. It's like when you first learn how to masturbate, you want to keep doing it. I've been craving it all day; I'm walking around with a clitoris hard on!"

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