Posted by Bill on July 22, 2009 at 14:05:

In Reply to: Great Relationship but Sucky Sex? posted by Jenna on July 21, 2009 at 19:28:

I grew up with the old fashioned idea of "ladies first." What this ultimately meant to me was that, giving a lady priority in most aspects of social and personal interaction gave her a sign that she would get the same kind of treatment in the bedroom. As I became more and more sensually aware, it became apparent that giving my lover at least one, maybe two climaxes before I even started thinking about one of my own has wonderful benefits. Not only is she more receptive to coupling, but also has a strong desire to reciprocate. Maybe these values aren't outdated.

I personally feel that there is nothing more exciting and stimulating than touching a woman intimately as she builds toward, and has an orgasm. Try simply asking your man if he would help you to have an orgasm, before his attention is directed toward himself.

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