It is said that a woman can experience ecstasy when she surrenders to a man. My experience is that she will for those few minutes but the price is that in those moments of vulnerability she gives away all that she is to someone who does not know or understand her. Surrender is like heroin, it gives you the ride of your life while you are high but it will turn you into a junky and will destroy your life entirely from wanting to experience it again. The world is made out of wolves looking to devour anything vulnerable.