Thanks Robin. You may be on to something there. I believe that I had made it up in my mind that I was going to have or should have a clitoral orgasm and he was trying to explain to me the joy of having an orgasm from my g-spot. I don't know where it is and he's frustrated that I don't and is certain he's accessing it and can't understand why I'm not exploding in ectasy when all I want is the familiar clitoral orgasm. Oh there's more I just won't get into it right now.