Posted by Robin on May 20, 2009 at 11:54:

In Reply to: Re: Can not achieve an orgasm (and want to...) posted by Tracey on May 20, 2009 at 04:03:

Hi Tracey,

I can relate to what you are saying because we got very frustrated with him trying to give me an orgasm, I was going to quit too. I wrote about it here over a year ago, so hang in there with it. But I didn't quit, we have had so much fun since then!

One of those things I had to change my mind about was the model of orgasm I was going for. I didn't even realize there was a model I was striving for that was getting in the way, but there was and so many expectations that went with it.

I came to realize that once I let go of those expectations, other possibilities of orgasm, sensation and pleasure came into the picture. We used experimenting with DOing to get there. It is such a unique way of exploring and has brought out the best in our whole sex life together.

Let me know how it is going with you guys, and don't give up.

Follow Ups:

• Re: Can not achieve an orgasm (and want to...) - Tracey 15:52 5/21/09
  • Re: Can not achieve an orgasm (and want to...) - Ellie 13:18 6/17/09
  • Re: Can not achieve an orgasm (and want to...) - APPY 14:42 6/12/09