My clit changes size and I can't seem to make a connection to the size and if I have an orgasm or not or how satisfied I feel afterwards. I think I have an average size clit on the whole. Even before we tried DOing I would sometimes masturbate and my clit would seem so big, but the orgasm wasn't as good as other times when my clit was smaller. I'm curious about why that happens.
You may have a point about the nerves, but I assume my clit would always have the same amount of nerves, so that would not have been a factor for me. Maybe someone does know if bigger clits have more nerves.