Posted by Cedric on November 05, 2008 at 21:27:

In Reply to: Ongoing Post-DOing Benefits? posted by Chris5 on October 29, 2008 at 06:49:

It is fun that you have incorporated Doing into your sex life. When I first started Doing my partner she wanted to go over every time. I did what she wanted. I took her over the edge. We had a good time. She told me until she started getting done she never had had enough going up and over the top. There was a point when she did have enough of going over. I did her regularly and still do. We talk about what we feel. She tells me what she likes and I tell her what I feel when I stroke her clitoris. She said she wanted to expand the amount and intensity of sensation that she feels in her clit. One of the things that she wanted was a dome shaped orgasm as described in the Doing series.

I still take her over occasionally. It feels good. She likes it. It is a facet of our sex life. There are many other facets as well. Doing is deliberate orgasm. Keep talking to her. You may find she changes. This is my experience.

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