Posted by The Welcomed Consensus - Terry on September 20, 2008 at 15:15:

In Reply to: The orgasm capability ladder posted by NickS on September 18, 2008 at 23:44:

Using the metaphor you have provided…

As comers, we would not put ourselves at the top of the ladder, it is not our goal to reach the top. This would mean the game was over. Our orgasm, just like everybody else, has the potential to be better, to expand and continue to grow for the rest of our lives.

The clitoris has the highest concentration of nerve endings in the human body, including the eye. Most people would agree that if someone stuck a finger in their eye, they would feel it. Women have been discouraged to feel and experience pleasure, especially sexual pleasure, and to varying degrees have “lost” the ability to feel as a result of this socialization.

When a woman is willing to notice what she does feel when a well lubricated finger is placed on her clitoris, and call it good, she has taken the first step to making her orgasm better. If she is willing to notice what she feels in the second stroke and call it good, she has now experienced twice as much orgasm as she started with.

It is the willingness to take the next step up that has it be better, and has nothing to do with how far she has climbed thus far. Willingness neutralizes the question of ability, leveling the playing field.

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