Posted by Robin on April 15, 2008 at 23:52:

Someone told me about your site, that I could get answers about manual clitoral stimulation here. I have never had a really good experience receiving it from a man.

Why? In order for it to be pleasurable, it has to be in exactly the right place, with exactly the right pressure and exactly the right speed. No man is a mind reader and even though I have no problem saying what I need and how, it is hard to explain exactly what I mean, especially since one day to the next it is different. Also what a woman needs can change from the beginning of the stimulation to the end.

Up to this point I would say that I prefer to do it myself rather than struggle with guiding somebody else's hand. I have had the most intense orgasms doing it myself, but I want to be able to have that kind of intensity with a man stimulating me.

I am asking here what is the best way for me to get what I want across to a man? I don't want to struggle so much because it ends up in frustration for both of us.

Follow Ups:

• DOing...Manual clitoral stimulation - Daisy 22:38 4/16/08
  • Re: DOing...Manual clitoral stimulation - Robin 22:58 4/18/08