Posted by The Welcomed Consensus on February 09, 2008 at 17:38:

In Reply to: Advice about making dates posted by Jenna on February 08, 2008 at 17:31:

Women have the ability to turn on whenever they want.

If a woman is confident that she could have any type of sensual contact that she wanted anytime she wanted it, then she might want some type of sensual contact most of the time.

Sensual contact could include having your hair brushed, taking a walk, holding hands, preparing a meal together, massage, being DOne or DOing your partner.

The finest sensual experiences we have had over the years that we have been researching sensuality have been ones that started out with “good feelings”.

For us, orgasm is the great liberator, when people are doing what it takes to have better orgasm they are happy people, they are friends. Doing “what it takes” includes learning to communicate about the most pleasurable/remarkable/difficult thing that people have to communicate about in a winning way.

Women are still the great untapped source of sensual pleasure. The way most people “make love” is based on a male model. When women have the attention, approval, information and are willing to communicate, new experiences are available.

The way men “do it” is so thoroughly ingrained in our culture that women have adopted that model for “making love” that they “feel” like it’s their own and try to improve a model that is limited. Men have a lot to learn from an informed, honest woman.

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• New experiences - Jenna 18:24 3/12/08