Posted by Bill on February 03, 2008 at 12:13:

In Reply to: Re: Ready for Something Different posted by Bill on February 02, 2008 at 23:50:

Tom,

With respect to the findings of the WC, they have discovered that there is a tiny spot on the clitoris that is hyper sensitive, and they describe this in detail in their videos. I found this spot on my wife, and it has ignited a fire in her. The exact location of this spot varies, and most of the WC look for it at about 1:00 as you face the vulva. Their preferred method of stimulation is digital, and at this location, must agree that it would be the best way. My wife's spot is located at 6:00, and I find oral stimulation with the tip of my tongue to be most successful.

I think the importance of this spot cannot be over emphasized. My experience has been that my wife used to have an orgasm once every time or 2 that we made love. After I discovered her spot, and how to touch it, she has 2 or 3 orgasms every time, and will become aggressive about having one, something totally new in her character.

I'd suggest setting the mood to make her feel comfortable, safe, and ready to relax and feel, with lots of time available and no distractions. Then, ever so gently and slowly, search for her spot, being sensitive to the slightest response from her. If you touch it, she will probably respond with a movement of her clitoris, a burst of wetness, or just a twitch. Remember where it is and don't go back to it right away. Move away a few inches or so and make your way back slowly so she can anticipate another touch, and be even more gentle the second time. If she liked it, she will likely coax you to touch it again with her movements.

And so begins the journey.......

Follow Ups:

• Re: Additional Comments - Tom 06:52 2/06/08
  • I am sure your she enjoy's your enthusiasm. - DavidH. 08:01 2/06/08