Posted by Tom on February 02, 2008 at 19:33:

In Reply to: Ready for Something Different posted by Bill on February 02, 2008 at 11:49:

Hi Bill,

I think I can answer your question. I'm not female, but I have figured out some stuff about my own body that I have been able to do with some of the women I have known too. I haven't seen any of the WC videos yet, I'd be curious to know if they talk about something similar. What I have found is that by bringing myself very close to orgasm and then letting myself come back down, and repeating this cycle over and over again, I can get into a state which is not the same as orgasm but is entirely satisfying in a very different way. Rather than the full blowout of an orgasm, it is a sort of endless state of heightened, ecstatic, trembling awareness and sensitivity. It can go on for many, many minutes, even hours, basically as long as I want. It can also be escalated into a normal orgasm, and that can be a great way to end it, but it's not necessary. Some women like this sort of thing too I have found, while others like to go over the top every time and just aren't into it.

Since you have seen all the WC videos, maybe you can offer me some advice. My girlfriend has never had an orgasm, not even through masturbation. She's very passionate about sex but has just never been able to figure out how to come. One thing she says is that she doesn't think she has much sensitivity in her clitoris. She has asked me to do some research on how she might learn how to reach orgasm. I am eyeing some of the WC videos with this in mind. Which do you think might be most appropriate? If they place an emphasis on never going over the top they might not be the right thing for her. I would imagine she has to know where the top is before she can think about not going over it.

Thanks,

Tom

Follow Ups:

• Re: Ready for Something Different - Bill 23:50 2/02/08
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